clara sandra
New member
Hi all,
I've been doing a bit of soul searching after being on the diet rollercoaster for the last ten years, and I started wondering - each time I start the weight loss journey, what really drives me to do it?
I think I've been telling myself for so long that I'm doing this for myself, to get fit, to achieve that overall sense of well-being etc... but am I really doing it for me?
And if not, is it ok to have a more 'superficial' goal, ie fitting into a wedding dress, looking good at a big event, catching the eye of a guy etc, where the heart of your goal isn't actually your health?
I have good medical reasons to lose weight (liver issues) yet this isn't sufficient to get me off my butt and get moving! When I ask myself honestly, the real driver is this perception that I have a much hotter, healthier boyfriend than me and I just want to be beautiful for him. How shameful and sad!
What drives you guys to lose weight?
I've been doing a bit of soul searching after being on the diet rollercoaster for the last ten years, and I started wondering - each time I start the weight loss journey, what really drives me to do it?
I think I've been telling myself for so long that I'm doing this for myself, to get fit, to achieve that overall sense of well-being etc... but am I really doing it for me?
And if not, is it ok to have a more 'superficial' goal, ie fitting into a wedding dress, looking good at a big event, catching the eye of a guy etc, where the heart of your goal isn't actually your health?
I have good medical reasons to lose weight (liver issues) yet this isn't sufficient to get me off my butt and get moving! When I ask myself honestly, the real driver is this perception that I have a much hotter, healthier boyfriend than me and I just want to be beautiful for him. How shameful and sad!
What drives you guys to lose weight?