What Maketh the Woman?

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Chillen

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Well, since we have a thread about: "What Maketh the Man?" , I thought we should have a thread on, "What Maketh the Woman", so it would appear we do not sexually discriminate. :beerchug: :D

So, what are the opinions of the males and females of our beloved forum.

"What Maketh the Woman?"​


Best wishes,

Chillen
 
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Sexy, VERY girly, loves pink ;)

Many MANY Crude, offensive, and vulgar other things i wish to say but will keep them to myself :D
 
The only difference between this and the maketh the man thread is that here we will get sued for anything we post.

I actually have a bunch of stuff but I'd get accused of creating gender roles and all of that stuff :p
 
This is a tough topic because only until recently women begun to take multiple roles outside of the house.

In all, women in all species are viewed as typically more valuable than men. For example, in sinking ships, typically women and children have the highest priority than men. Men are allowed to die like dogs, but women are to be upheld as the highest and most valuable resource in any society. In any case, a single woman can change the course of battle or history; they are viewed as mothers, the giver of life and happiness (nothing is more relaxing than hearing a woman's voice when the ****s about to hit the fan, it's like saying, "Hey, don't worry, everything is alright" in a good way). In the case where a woman is in need, typically men can do everything, even give up their life to save that woman. Nothing is morally down than seeing a woman die. It's like when I watch the news, I feel a real sadness come over me when I see a woman - grown or child - get injured or died; however, for men, I'm like, "Yeah, probably deserved it."

Until recently, this line is sort of blurred. Women want to prove that they're "tough" enough by taking on roles typically designed for men. The fact is that women are more "looked down" upon; thus it's harder for a women to do things not only because of their physical limitations, but also the limitation of their peers (both men and other women).
 
There are a lot of nasty gender roles that when not followed, will get a woman ostracized.

The first one is the requirement that women act sexually timid and passive otherwise they're labeled "sluts" even if they're monogamous. I guess it's the whole sexual double standard that drives me crazy. Men act like they want a sexual woman, but when a woman acts sexual, she loses their respect. Of course, I know this isn't the case with all men, just some. I like a man who's not afraid to see me as equal to him (not just under him), and who doesn't feel threatened by it.

Okay the next thing is beauty and all the forms it takes. The ideal woman should dress nicely, not too revealing but not too prudish. She should make an attempt to follow some of the fashion trends while staying true to her "personal style" which she should have developed by the time she was a teenager. She's expected to wear some makeup, just not too much. She's also expected to shave her legs an underarms, not because it's unsanitary to have leg hair, but because that's just the way society views beauty.

I try to do all of these things just so I can fit in. Shame isn't it? I used to be the boyish, feminist type in the way I presented myself, but then I discovered that I was denying myself the power that comes with following the rules. Looking nice gets a woman a lot, and sometimes I feel resentful about this. I'm the same person whether I'm hot or not. It seems unfair that women get a great amount of power based solely on their looks.

Okay next thing is body. The ideal woman should have the classic hourglass shape. A narrow waist, curvy hips and large breasts. Women with average sized breasts now think of themselves as "flat" and go out to get them enhanced to make themselves feel more womanly. I was about to fall into this trap, but then I realized that I'm already a real woman, I just have Bs instead of Ds, so what?

Wow, that's a lot, and that's just the tip of the iceberg. Thanks chillen, for bringing up such an interesting topic! You can tell I'm passionate about it.
 
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-good with kids
-strong willed
-ability to go out and have a good time
-not too prissy to "rough it" (i.e. camping)
-good sense of humor
-quick witted
-knows directions
-selfless
-passionate
-compassionate
-works with her spouse to maintain a family / household
-some career direction though not necessarily a corporate exec.
 
All I require in a woman is for her to be as mentally tough as me, to respect me but no idolize me in any way :D
 
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The first one is the requirement that women act sexually timid and passive otherwise they're labeled "sluts" even if they're monogamous. I guess it's the whole sexual double standard that drives me crazy. Men act like they want a sexual woman, but when a woman acts sexual, she loses their respect. Of course, I know this isn't the case with all men, just some. I like a man who's not afraid to see me as equal to him (not just under him), and who doesn't feel threatened by it.
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I think it is a shame that women get labeled as sluts. Though, in my experience, only women who act sexual to several men at the time gets this. I think most men like women who can do something sexual (doesn't have to be sex, but sexuAL) to turn them on a bit and take the lead once in a while.

Also, I don't know how it is in the rest of the world, but around here when a man is acting like "a slut" he is not respected. A lot of people think that men who sleep around a lot get a lot of respect, but I think it is about to change, at least where I am. No one likes the guy who sleeps around. And it is the same with women. The only thing that might make up for it is if they make it clear that it is a one time thing. Some people view sex as something they do with ONE person, the one they love. while others have a more "liberal" view of it and think it is something that feels good so why not do it, and there doesn't have to be a lot of emotion. I think that is OK, but it is important to let the person you are about to seduce know that it is a one time thing so they don't do it and get emotional.

I guess I kinda derailed it a bit from what you were talking about but I just wanted to bring that up.
 
What maketh a woman.

My wife.

Perfect example. (depends on the day of the week :) )

What Maketh a man.

Me.

A perfect example. (just depends on the day of the week :) )

Why?

Because we mesh together as one by being soul mates and off set our faults with personal qualities we possess thus enabling us to be married for more than 25 years.

Yes, we are perfect because it isnt broken and we know we possess imperfection.


:)

Chillen
 
Kraken said:
-good with kids
-strong willed
-ability to go out and have a good time
-not too prissy to "rough it" (i.e. camping)
-good sense of humor
-quick witted
-knows directions
-selfless
-passionate
-compassionate
-works with her ( HIS ) spouse to maintain a family / household
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?

Sounds like the exact same description / qualities you could use to define a ' real man ' IMO.

Kraken said:
-some career direction though not necessarily a corporate exec.
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That said, a woman should be as much at home as a ' corporate exec ' as any man IMO.
 
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Kraken said:
-good with kids
-strong willed
-ability to go out and have a good time
-not too prissy to "rough it" (i.e. camping)
-good sense of humor
-quick witted
-knows directions
-selfless
-passionate
-compassionate
-works with her spouse to maintain a family / household
-some career direction though not necessarily a corporate exec.
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You described me perfectly but throw in there 'determined' and 'always gets what she wants'
 
****, I think Kraken's list is pretty good. I also agree with CCR, being mentally tough is important too. Thats the one weakness of my gf, she is fragile...which can be ok, since it really gives me the opportunity to be the protector, but at a certain point, I expect her to be strong.
 
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