The thing is I don't eat 4 meals a day. In fact I only really eat one "meal" and the rest is just minor snacking. I don't have the appetite for more than that and to be honest, I'm too busy working out, excersing and working with the rest of my time to eat anyway.
I find that after I play basketball, run or lift weights my appetite disappears for a couple hours. I could be pretty hungry and run, and when I'm done I don't feel hungry at all. I work weird hours so I don't really eat a breakfast. This is my current diet:
Wake up at 2pm, very minor hunger at around 5 pm - eat a yogurt
8pm is when my full and only real hunger kicks in - eat usually turkey on wheat or grilled chicken. Sometimes I'll have lean steak and veggies.
Somewhere between 9-10 pm, bowl of fruit and some pretzels
11 pm - work and bring some pretzels with me to eat while working.
Get home at 7:30 am and sleep.
I don't eat the same things every day, but I don't have great variety either. I'm not a creative eater, and my tastes are very limited. I dislike a lot of different foods.
I'm getting tired of the chicken, turkey and steak though. I wish there was something I could substitute that I like, but I've become calorie obsessed and I think that is hurting me more than helping me, because I'm starting to have trouble stomaching the same food all the time.
I don't even know if my daily diet is even ideal for losing weight. I'm losing it, but I'm trying to get my minor gut down to a completely tone stomach and it is getting slimmer, but very very slowly. Maybe that is just how it is, I don't know.