Valentine's Day

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Every year I get sucked into this, and by the time it's all over I've spent a couple hundred. Stupid media.. :SaiyanSmilie_anim:




Anyone else a sucker?
 
Jeez, what did you get him :rofl:
 
mreik said:
Me and evo don't buy anything for eachother anymore, we're like an old married couple. I buy things for the mistress... :beerchug:
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Yup. We go to the gym and get a hyoooge pump. Then we sit around and kiss our biceps. See, we're so much more in love with ourselves than material objects.

But the damn mistresses on the other hand.
 
The first valentines day in me and my GFs relationship was pretty early on. I was sitting with her and all her girlfriends and they asked what we were doing on valentines day.. I looked at them and said "I don't know what the hell she's doing, I'm I'm gonna train"
I plan to repeat that this year. :D
 
this year I mailed the card to my own house, and it totally THRILLED HER! Tonight is my lucky night! or wait, that was last night, and tomorrow night.

got get the cardio in somehow.

it's all about the card.
 
I made arrangements on Monday, to have an in person singing card and flower presentation while my wife was at work, for delivery today. They should get there about 1PM. I wrote the words on the card myself. There is going to be 3 persons and one guitar. And a presentation, of a dozen roses.

Happy times, tonight :D


Chillen
 
It's a sad day for me. So lonely, no money to spend on anyone.... :(

Oh well. I'll buy my mom a card and flower for the heck of it.
 
Chillen said:
I made arrangements on Monday, to have an in person singing card and flower presentation while my wife was at work, for delivery today. They should get there about 1PM. I wrote the words on the card myself. There is going to be 3 persons and one guitar. And a presentation, of a dozen roses.

Happy times, tonight :D


Chillen
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Nice!! You better get your rest while you can, brutha.
 
Chillen said:
I made arrangements on Monday, to have an in person singing card and flower presentation while my wife was at work, for delivery today. They should get there about 1PM. I wrote the words on the card myself. There is going to be 3 persons and one guitar. And a presentation, of a dozen roses.

Happy times, tonight :D


Chillen
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OMG!!!! :luxlove::luxlove::luxlove::luxlove::luxlove::luxlove::luxlove:
 
Naw, Tom, it's not that. It's just, I've never really cared about societal conventions re: holidays/"appropriate times for celebration". I think I've ignored probably 2 out of 3 Valentine's Days since I started dating (at 11 years old XD, yeah I'm counting those years lol), but never really gotten into any trouble for it. I try to just make an effort most days of the year.

I mean, what's so great about having one fixed day, when you could have say, 30 of them, occurring randomly throughout the year? I try to tailor my good behavior to when it will have more of an impact. If I notice she's been having a ****ty week or last couple of days, well, suddenly it's "Valentine's Day". Don't care for the notion of having to do it, though. Romance is not an obligation.

I'm the same way with Birthdays and wedding stuff. I got 'yelled at' by a whole lot of people for blowing off my best friend's engagement party a couple months ago, but the thing is, right before that I did something really cool for him. And did he make an issue of it? No. Not saying that makes it okay, per se, but rather that I don't know what the big deal is. Like, if I don't drop what I'm doing to go to his pre-occasion, then we're not tight? If I don't pull out stops on Valentine's Day, specifically, then I obviously don't care about my girl? Why should a bunch of random strangers get to decide when I do or don't meet some fictional standard of romance? I don't get it.

Sorry if I just killed the spirit of the thread. Apparently I can't resist answering a direct question. :eek: No disrespect intended to anyone who celebrates, or even goes all out for, Valentine's Day. I think that's real nice. ****, I'm probably about to go scramble to put a little something together last minute, myself. I just like to be contrary. :p
 
I don't go along with any holidays either, BUT.......

I told my husband I felt a little neglected lately, and even though he has been stressed, I could use some attention, so..........

NOt because its V-day, but because he listened-we are going to a spa hotel thingy and then on a winery tour the following day! SWEET :luxlove:


Sorry, so excited lol
 
Nothing could kill, my spirit, bud.

And, most importantly, its not the holiday that matters, but the heart of the one you love, and thus the purpose. I do what I did today, more than 6 times per year (spontaneously). I dont pay attention to the holidays, necessarily, as much as I do the heart of the one I love........and thus I have been married 25 years.
 
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