I'm in the same boat as you, original poster.
However, when Iw as in HS, my body was pathetic. It was even worse when I kept my hair short...All I was was a walking nose.
I'm much sexier now(not said out of vanity, but by observation of how the opposite sex treats me), with a much improved body, a full head of hair, and most importantly, the way I carry myself...physically and mentally. Confidence and the ability to spit game is like 80%+ of the battle.
So what's the moral? If your personality is attractive (confident, humorous) you'll net women just the same as if you were a good looking jerk. (maybe)
Being out of high school helped me a great deal as well. You change, the women you meet change...it's all mostly for the better.
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Oh yeah, and squatting/deadlifting, doing good mornings has helped me a great deal. The hormone release I've recieved has made my jaw bigger and thicker, taking some of the emphasis off my nose. Hahahahaha
The ultimate moral is...if you really thinka bout this stuff-- you can't change any of this **** about you. Just do your own thing, and be your own person. Or let this stuff get you down for a while like it did me...when you come out of it you'll be singing the same song I am now.