Weight-Loss This is how i lost 55 lbs.

Weight-Loss

cmefly

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I LOST 55 LBS. in 6 months by following my own tailored plan from years of gathering knowledge of different diets over the years. In two weeks I will share my exercise plan that I started after losing my first 20 lbs. when I started having more energy.

1. Drink plenty of water
2. Eat within 1 hour of waking.
3. Eat every 3 to 4 hours.
4. Eat all fruits before 3 PM
5. Eat all starches before 3 PM
6. All starches must have high-fiber, low calories
7. Eat last serving of proteins 2 hours prior to bedtime.
8. Eat only what tastes good to you
9. Always keep snacks with you on the go
10. Eat last meal 2 to 3 hours before bedtime
11. Drink hot lemon water 1 hour before bedtime
12. Plan meals and snacks the day before
13. Write it down in your journal
14. Refer to your goals and reasons for doing this every day
15. Get rid of all foods that tempt you
16. Split a protein bar you like into 4 pieces throughout the day after meals (they are very expensive so I came up with my own recipe)

Drink plenty of water: 8 glasses is recommended 8 ounces each. I prefer to keep reusable water bottles with me at all times.

Eat within 1 hour of waking: Jumpstart your metabolism by eating something. Even if you don’t like breakfast, just a small snack will do for now. This is when I usually eat fruit or a few bites of a protein bar.

Eat every 3 to 4 hours: If you’re not hungry after four hours, than you must’ve eaten too much during your last meal. Skinny people eat all day long, Sumo Wrestlers eat all their food right before bedtime. Does this sound like someone you know?

Eat all fruits before 3 PM: Fruit has natural sugar that is better off metabolized early in the day. Eating fruit is a must, so don’t leave this out unless your doctor says no. All food groups are necessary for healthy weight loss. You may even disguise it in sauces and dips.

Eat all starches before 3 PM: Yeah! We can s still eat bread, pastas, and muffins. Do your homework with labels on this one. You want the lowest calories with the highest fiber. (more bang for your buck metaphorically with weight loss)

All starches must have high-fiber: Along with enough water throughout the day, you will feel full, and have regularity in bowel movements. Fiber is like a cleaner for your intestines as well as many other benefits.

Eat last serving of proteins before bedtime: Protein takes the longest to digest, so if you eat it as your last food, your metabolism runs through the night, so you are losing weight while you sleep, ‘cause you are burning calories to digest food!

Eat only what tastes good to you: If it doesn’t taste good, why eat it? If you are following my suggestions, you should not get too hungry and eat whatever is in front of you at the moment.

Always keep snacks with you on the go: I am always driving for some reason... I save money this way and lose weight at the same time. A collapsible cooler can be used for this. This is when I decided to splurge a little... I bought a fancy one that looks like a purse $10

Eat last meal 2 to 3 hours before bedtime: Write down the times you plan to eat in your journal. This is a meal that I would eat a serving of protein, veggies, and healthy fat.

Drink hot lemon water 1 hour before bedtime: This is a great way to release water retention without pills and lose weight fast, especially if you ate at a restaurant that day or processed food.

Plan meals and snacks the day before: Planning helps us to stick to what we wrote down. "If I write it, I do it."

Write it down in your journal: Write down food groups at top of page with date and weight. P= Protein, S= Starches, V= Vegetables, F= Fruit, D= Dairy, Fa= Fat. Include condiments and portion size. (Soon you will be able to measure by sight) Write the times you plan to eat all foods.

Refer to your goals and reasons every day: This list should be clearly stated on your bathroom mirror. Next week I'll post my list for you to read.

Get rid of all foods that tempt you: If you live with family members ask for their support by hiding their snacks and eating them when you are not present at least for the first month while you are in "withdrawl" of your addiction.

Monitor your hunger number as well. 1-10 is the range. 1= stuffed ( If I eat 1 more bite I'll vomit), 10= starved for too long ( I'm going to chew on my arm now). Never allow yourself to go that far on either side of the scale. A good range = 7: This means that I just heard the first growl, and now I'm about to sit down to a low-fat, low sodium gourmet cuisine that I prepared because I LOVE MYSELF that much. I eat slowly without speaking to others, and without the TV in front of me so I can pay attention to my food, and I chew every bite as if I am going to the electric chair after this meal . I say a prayer before I start my meal ( I read somewhere that there is a scientific reason for this as well). 4= full: This feels like I could eat more but I feel satiated now. I'll allow this food to simmer, and see if I'm hungry in an hour. In the meantime, I will get the kitchen cleaned up and I feel GRATEFUL for being able to eat something healthy AND delicious.

It takes 20 minutes for the signal to reach your brain that you are full. (So that's what I read and I absolutely believe it.)



And always remember, “I can do this” :hurray:
 
You don't need to 'jumpstart' your metabolism, that's nonsense. You do not need to eat every 3 - 4 hours, and no, if you are not hungry again after that time it does NOT mean that you ate too much before. Completely wrong.

The time at which you eat doesn't matter. The time at which you eat specific foods doesn't matter. Hot lemon is complete bs. If you eat a balanced diet, you won't need any protein bars.

Don't eat anything you don't like? So you're saying I should keep eating all that high calorie food that I love? Because I don't like vegetables. I don't like fruit. I don't like salad. That bit of 'advice' isn't quite thought through, is it?

Don't take snacks with you. If you do, you'll eat them. If you don't, you won't, thus saving yourself calories. Unless you're diabetic, you don't need snacks.

Don't get rid of 'tempting' foods. Cutting them out will just make you miss them more, and a lot of people will end up binging because they don't allow themselves a treat every now and again. Instead, work what you like into your daily calorie allowance, and have a cheat day every now and again. And overeating is not not an addiction, so there is no such thing as withdrawal.

Prayer before food? To help you lose weight? And there's a scientific reason for that? I am really struggling to take you seriously here. There is NOTHING scientific about that. Not even close. If that helps you lose weight, then I'm afraid that your problem is mental, not physical.

In summary, your list contains of a lot of hideously wrong points, and a few that are really nothing new.

I lost 75.5 lbs in just over 7 months, just by watching my calories and exercising on a regular basis. No denying myself anything, no outlandish ideas of only eating things at a certain time of the day, no hot lemon, no prayers. And every weekend, I have a splurge and eat whatever the hell I want. And the pounds are coming off nicely. Just good old 'eat less, move more'.

You're making something that is really quite simple rather complicated, and you are following a lot of nonsensical misconceptions. I mean, I'm glad it works for you, but you could have managed to lose the same weight in the same time by removing 3/4 of your list, and not notice a difference.
 
Although I appreciate that you believe what you say in your response to my post because your way worked for you, I will respond to each of your comments in a RESPECTFUL way, because I am not here to make anything "complicated" for anyone, or to be HURTFUL to anyone. I must say, this "Lifestyle Training" is actually quite easy, and I have more helpful tips and recipes coming soon.

I truly want to help others lose weight because I know how it feels to be ridiculed, laughed at, and treated with utter disrespect simply because I had a weight problem. I see that you lost over 75 lbs. in 6 months and congratulations to you for accomplishing this. I know you understand the suffering we all here endured or maybe some of us are still trying to find relief from.

I am not the only person who lost weight this way. I have coached all family and friends who wanted help to lose weight in the last 2 months by following what I did. Everything we tried before did not help us. The "Eat less, Move More Concept" did not help any of us KEEP the weight off. I did P90x and "Got Ripped" then I slowly gave up because I could not keep up with that lifestyle... then I gained all the weight back. ... In the long term, we need to live with something we can keep up with.

I taught friends and family how to make simple healthy recipes that taste great and they were not hungry all day long. As a matter of fact, we were afraid we did not actually lose weight before we got on the scale, only to find we ALL lost 3-5 lbs. every week since we started. Today I ate a meatball and spaghetti lunch with my 72 year old mother who has lost 20 lbs. since late June following what I did, and I said to her, “Did you miss eating the other half you would have eaten before you changed your habits?” She said, “No, I’m full, and I still have leftovers for another day, so I don’t miss the other half. I saved some money.” Then I asked her, “Does this spaghetti taste any different than the spaghetti you used to make?” She responded that it tastes better!” Now she is my mom, but I know she enjoyed that meal she cooked because I watched her eat it.

You mentioned that having snacks with you on the go is too tempting. My response to that is it has already been added in the plan the night before so that we don’t get tempted to stop at fast food restaurants when we get hungry. I bring healthy snacks properly portioned to keep me from cheating. My cooler usually contains a cup of Greek yogurt, a protein bar, nuts or seeds, cheese sticks, hummus with green pepper, or maybe even a turkey sandwich, All of which I enjoy. Some of you think that’s gross, so find something else. Any high fat dish or snack, I can convert to a low-fat, low sodium dish or snack, because I am a fabulous cook with years of working in restaurants and living in a city where food is the entertainment: “New Orleans”

In response to your comment about my suggestion of not eating something I don't like, I truly mean that. If you don't like broccoli or cabbage, find a veggie you do like. Give yourself a chance to try new recipes, because I have 2 friends who suffer from Crohn's Disease simply because they did not like fruits and vegetables when they were young. ( They only had one person cooking and buying groceries for them) but now they must eat something from these food groups because they could actually die without them. I hate to be so morbid about this, but there are plenty of delicious recipes that incorporate fruits and vegetables. If you absolutely hate something, find something else to replace it.

My suggestion of "jumpstarting" the metabolism in the morning comes from my research in college while taking a class on "Health and Nutrition", as well as some of the diet books such as "Master your Metabolism" by Jillian Michaels whom I respect, because she has lots of researched information in her bibliography of sources. Plus, I simply observed how thin people eat. They do not go hungry all day long and then gorge on food at night when they are home with their families. That's what overweight people do. I also observed how much a thin person eats when they have a meal. It does NOT include 3 or more servings on a large plate as we are used to seeing at restaurants. Thin people eat all day long, eating small meals and snacks. When I was young and thin, that's what I did. By the way, these are only suggestions that worked for my family, friends, and me. If that simple suggestion does not work for you, don’t do it. If you come to a plateau in your weight loss, try it again, and that might be the key.
This happened to me: I love espresso coffee, and I also enjoy drinking sake’ wine at times. When I came to a plateau in my weight loss, I decided to give up the espresso for two weeks. Right away, I lost 5 pounds and kept it off, even though I went back to drinking coffee, espresso. Another time, the same happened with drinking sake’ wine. When I gave it up for two weeks and I lost another 7 pounds. Even though I incorporated both back into my diet, I have kept the weight off.

Allow me to address the concept of prayer before eating a meal:

It has been proven in the study of Quantum Physics that prayer of thankfulness and love changes the cellular structure of any living organism. There are many videos and books related to this subject. If you want me to post references of this subject, I will be happy to quote references. Only in the last 20 years have scientists been able to determine this awesome fact. It is quite fascinating to read about an Energy more powerful than we are that has been proven by scientists around the world to manipulate nature to suit its needs. I recommend to start with a video called, “What the Bleep? Down the Rabbit Hole”. Be careful though, it might take you on a journey you’re not ready for…

I agree with you that a person does not need protein bars to lose weight. For me, it has helped quite a bit because I have a sweet tooth. My favorite protein bars taste like Snickers or Oreo cookies. I love peanut butter and chocolate as well. I don’t love the price, but I found ways to get around that by making my own snacks and protein bars. I have three kinds of recipes to satisfy my sweet tooth. I can share those with you soon.

Regarding the subject of hot lemon water at night, lemon is a diuretic. This is a proven fact by anyone with a license in Nutrition. The American diet typically has too much sodium, and that’s why this works so well. Sodium retains fluid in the body, lemon releases it through urine.

The last point I would like to make is the response to your comment about overeating in relation to an obsessive behavior with food and the “withdrawl” of sugar in the diet. Not everyone, I agree has this problem, but I do, and I know a lot of people who do as well. I am an emotional binger and it is definitely a mental problem. Before I started losing weight, I realized that if I could change my mind, I could change my body, and that’s exactly what I did. My mission is to help other people do the same as me.

You have lost the weight, and now you need to maintain your weight loss. There is a reason why you are here and whatever that reason is, I’m sure that you have helped other people in the process. You and I are on the same path, and I wish you much success to your endeavor to maintain a healthy lifestyle and help others as well. Thank you for your comments. Christine
 
I could reply to all of the above, but I won't, because you are clearly convinced that you're right. There are things that you are completely wrong about, using the same old disproven arguments that we have read here countless times, while there is a ton of scientific evidence to the opposite which you conveniently ignore.

One example - hot lemon. It is WATER that releases the fluid from the body, not lemon. Diuretics will cause your body to RETAIN water in the long run, not release it, so you achieve the opposite of what you want. If you hydrate properly throughout the day, the sodium will be flushed out just nicely, no additional measures needed.

That's just one example, and I could dissect your post bit by bit, but I won't. I lost every interest in a discussion, and the ability to take you seriously, at the prayer bit. Sorry. Good luck with whatever you do, but.....no. Just no.
 
Although I appreciate that you believe what you say in your response to my post because your way worked for you, I will respond to each of your comments in a RESPECTFUL way, because I am not here to make anything "complicated" for anyone, or to be HURTFUL to anyone. I must say, this "Lifestyle Training" is actually quite easy, and I have more helpful tips and recipes coming soon.

I truly want to help others lose weight because I know how it feels to be ridiculed, laughed at, and treated with utter disrespect simply because I had a weight problem. I see that you lost over 75 lbs. in 6 months and congratulations to you for accomplishing this. I know you understand the suffering we all here endured or maybe some of us are still trying to find relief from.

I am not the only person who lost weight this way. I have coached all family and friends who wanted help to lose weight in the last 2 months by following what I did. Everything we tried before did not help us. The "Eat less, Move More Concept" did not help any of us KEEP the weight off. I did P90x and "Got Ripped" then I slowly gave up because I could not keep up with that lifestyle... then I gained all the weight back. ... In the long term, we need to live with something we can keep up with.

I taught friends and family how to make simple healthy recipes that taste great and they were not hungry all day long. As a matter of fact, we were afraid we did not actually lose weight before we got on the scale, only to find we ALL lost 3-5 lbs. every week since we started. Today I ate a meatball and spaghetti lunch with my 72 year old mother who has lost 20 lbs. since late June following what I did, and I said to her, “Did you miss eating the other half you would have eaten before you changed your habits?” She said, “No, I’m full, and I still have leftovers for another day, so I don’t miss the other half. I saved some money.” Then I asked her, “Does this spaghetti taste any different than the spaghetti you used to make?” She responded that it tastes better!” Now she is my mom, but I know she enjoyed that meal she cooked because I watched her eat it.

You mentioned that having snacks with you on the go is too tempting. My response to that is it has already been added in the plan the night before so that we don’t get tempted to stop at fast food restaurants when we get hungry. I bring healthy snacks properly portioned to keep me from cheating. My cooler usually contains a cup of Greek yogurt, a protein bar, nuts or seeds, cheese sticks, hummus with green pepper, or maybe even a turkey sandwich, All of which I enjoy. Some of you think that’s gross, so find something else. Any high fat dish or snack, I can convert to a low-fat, low sodium dish or snack, because I am a fabulous cook with years of working in restaurants and living in a city where food is the entertainment: “New Orleans”

In response to your comment about my suggestion of not eating something I don't like, I truly mean that. If you don't like broccoli or cabbage, find a veggie you do like. Give yourself a chance to try new recipes, because I have 2 friends who suffer from Crohn's Disease simply because they did not like fruits and vegetables when they were young. ( They only had one person cooking and buying groceries for them) but now they must eat something from these food groups because they could actually die without them. I hate to be so morbid about this, but there are plenty of delicious recipes that incorporate fruits and vegetables. If you absolutely hate something, find something else to replace it.

My suggestion of "jumpstarting" the metabolism in the morning comes from my research in college while taking a class on "Health and Nutrition", as well as some of the diet books such as "Master your Metabolism" by Jillian Michaels whom I respect, because she has lots of researched information in her bibliography of sources. Plus, I simply observed how thin people eat. They do not go hungry all day long and then gorge on food at night when they are home with their families. That's what overweight people do. I also observed how much a thin person eats when they have a meal. It does NOT include 3 or more servings on a large plate as we are used to seeing at restaurants. Thin people eat all day long, eating small meals and snacks. When I was young and thin, that's what I did. By the way, these are only suggestions that worked for my family, friends, and me. If that simple suggestion does not work for you, don’t do it. If you come to a plateau in your weight loss, try it again, and that might be the key.
This happened to me: I love espresso coffee, and I also enjoy drinking sake’ wine at times. When I came to a plateau in my weight loss, I decided to give up the espresso for two weeks. Right away, I lost 5 pounds and kept it off, even though I went back to drinking coffee, espresso. Another time, the same happened with drinking sake’ wine. When I gave it up for two weeks and I lost another 7 pounds. Even though I incorporated both back into my diet, I have kept the weight off.

Allow me to address the concept of prayer before eating a meal:

It has been proven in the study of Quantum Physics that prayer of thankfulness and love changes the cellular structure of any living organism. There are many videos and books related to this subject. If you want me to post references of this subject, I will be happy to quote references. Only in the last 20 years have scientists been able to determine this awesome fact. It is quite fascinating to read about an Energy more powerful than we are that has been proven by scientists around the world to manipulate nature to suit its needs. I recommend to start with a video called, “What the Bleep? Down the Rabbit Hole”. Be careful though, it might take you on a journey you’re not ready for…

I agree with you that a person does not need protein bars to lose weight. For me, it has helped quite a bit because I have a sweet tooth. My favorite protein bars taste like Snickers or Oreo cookies. I love peanut butter and chocolate as well. I don’t love the price, but I found ways to get around that by making my own snacks and protein bars. I have three kinds of recipes to satisfy my sweet tooth. I can share those with you soon.

Regarding the subject of hot lemon water at night, lemon is a diuretic. This is a proven fact by anyone with a license in Nutrition. The American diet typically has too much sodium, and that’s why this works so well. Sodium retains fluid in the body, lemon releases it through urine.

The last point I would like to make is the response to your comment about overeating in relation to an obsessive behavior with food and the “withdrawl” of sugar in the diet. Not everyone, I agree has this problem, but I do, and I know a lot of people who do as well. I am an emotional binger and it is definitely a mental problem. Before I started losing weight, I realized that if I could change my mind, I could change my body, and that’s exactly what I did. My mission is to help other people do the same as me.

You have lost the weight, and now you need to maintain your weight loss. There is a reason why you are here and whatever that reason is, I’m sure that you have helped other people in the process. You and I are on the same path, and I wish you much success to your endeavor to maintain a healthy lifestyle and help others as well. Thank you for your comments. Christine

Hi, I didn't take any health bar snacks with me on my trip today and we were stuck out in town. I was so hungry that when my hubby said to stop at a fast food place I started dreaming about french fries. I told myself I would only get a small, but at the window I almost said large. I managed to not get anything for myself, but only took one bite of his sandwich. If I had brought my health protein bars with me, then I would not have had that temptation or have felt so hungry. And I was the one driving, so I could not order a salad or anything like that. I'm salt sensitive or so the doc tells me, so I have to be careful.

Thanks for the mention of the snacks being on hand. I will remember it tomorrow before we leave to run errands. Oh and lemon helps with a lot of things like vitamin C and prevent some types of cancer, but I don't warm it up. I have used it to stop myself from drinking pop. I just add some lemon to a pitcher of water then fill the glass with ice.

I'm glad your plan worked for you. I'm going to focus more on just eating smaller portion sizes, exercise and water for now. Later on, I may need to take further steps like counting all of my calorie intake. :)
 
Hey cmefly really cool work plan. I think it's a bit to much I mean you should be able to achieve the same results even without getting so complicated about it, but definitively one of the best work plans I have ever seen.
 
I know there are less fussy approaches that work marvelously well for some people. However I can't imagine a lifestyle that requires journals, handling jugs of lemon water, clockwatching and parsing out snacks, proteins, starches, fruits and protein bar chunks.

I hope it continues to work with you though...
 
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