This chick at work doesn't like me

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txsqlchick

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We got a new employee at work in November; she is not in my group but sits near me.

I never liked her much from the get-go because of her attitude...tries to insult people so it's funny, laughs at people, basically started off with an over-familiar jokey attitude that is off-putting in someone that you don't know, but is fine in someone you've known for a long time. Basically she seemed like a bitch to me.

Well, she IS a bitch; and the more weight I lose, the worse she treats me. Basically she now acts like I don't even exist. She's heavy...about as heavy as I used to be. People are always congratulating me on my weight loss or telling me how good I look, and she hears that; maybe that has something to do with it?

Basically I don't like it when people are rude to me for no apparent reason, or rude to me for trying to do something to better myself (like lose weight). I'm thinking I'll just ignore her unless I need something from her or HAVE to talk to her.
 
I totally can understand this...just ignore her...it is easier said than done but as long as you have to work in the same company and got to see here everyday it is better to ignore her....I guess it is easy to become jealous when someone wants to get to something they have always wanted but cannot get to it...but what people fail to realize is how hard you work to get there......so give yourself a pat on your back for your success so far and use this as a motivational factor telling if she is jealous of you now wait until she sees you get down to your goal weight..wouldn't you want to see the look on her face then...I know I so would love to do that.....
 
Oh gosh, that girl is so jealous it isn't even funny. I have nothing to say other than I agree with what dreamtobethin said :)
 
Wow...I know you won't let her get a rise out of you cuz that's just how you are. And I'm sure you'll have no problem ignoring her but what a pain in the ass to have to go in to work everyday and deal with somebody else's unwarranted hostile attitude. Sorry you're having to deal with that, I know it sucks. I'll cross my fingers they decide to rearange things so she's not near you or there's a big ass partition somewhere you don't even see her :D Course with that attitude it doesn't sound like she'll last...eventually she's gonna smart off to the wrong person.
 
Its jealousy plain and simple. I get it alot too from people who I thought were my friends. You've worked hard to get where you are and you should be proud. I know that avoiding her seems the best but maybe try talking to her about it... maybe she faces fat demons too like the rest of us do or did. Or maybe she just really is a bitch in which case you tried to make your peace and its not in your hands!!
 
She sound jealous, insecure and immature. Yes just ignore her. I know sometimes that can be hard, but people do see how people really are eventually, and don't be surprised if other people around know her true self. Keep on your goal, and be happy...maybe, it'll rub off.
 
kill her with kindness

Just smile real big at her while you eat you're salad, because you know that you are fabulous! And that you are on you're way to being healthy and successful!

:reddevil:
 
Besides the legal ramifications would it be out of place to face punch her?

Sorry, but you all make such amicable suggestions that I had to spice things up a bit. :waving:
 
Does it bother you enough to make a thread about it?

When I was overweight I still thought I was a incredible irresistable studd muffin... but thats just me, I wouldnt worry about what others think about you.
 
Well I can really understand this, becuase now that I lost weight people treat me like crap too, like I'm some preppy bitch.

Whatever, they're jealous, and just mad that you have the will power to take control of yourself. =P
 
carthonn/moon/burneeed...like your style!!

i like your different approaches!! gotta laugh...best medicine & all that.


as for the bitchy girl...theres always one isn't there?? you're right just ignore her. its the attention/reaction from you that she wants. we can't gel with everybody can we?? if we did the connections we feel when we do click with ppl wouldn't be all that special would they?? but no excuse for being a cow.
 
txsqlchick said:
We got a new employee at work in November; she is not in my group but sits near me.

I never liked her much from the get-go because of her attitude...tries to insult people so it's funny, laughs at people, basically started off with an over-familiar jokey attitude that is off-putting in someone that you don't know, but is fine in someone you've known for a long time. Basically she seemed like a bitch to me.

Well, she IS a bitch; and the more weight I lose, the worse she treats me. Basically she now acts like I don't even exist. She's heavy...about as heavy as I used to be. People are always congratulating me on my weight loss or telling me how good I look, and she hears that; maybe that has something to do with it?

Basically I don't like it when people are rude to me for no apparent reason, or rude to me for trying to do something to better myself (like lose weight). I'm thinking I'll just ignore her unless I need something from her or HAVE to talk to her.
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Call her a fat bitch and then throw your lunch in her face.

Seriously though, she's probably just jealous. Or, she's just a bitch like you said. Either way, she sounds like someone I would like to push into a pool, just to be a dick.
 
She sounds like an insecure, childish person. Don't worry what people do/say/act ect when it comes to you. Don't let what other people do affect you. If people don't like me, I say screw them. I don't give a flying monkey what people think about me, or how they act towards me.

If she's going to be a bitch, oh well. Shrug it off and don't worry about it.
 
I'll just ignore her bait...thanks for the advice y'all!
 
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