taking any and all advice here. i am 6'2" at 235lbs. i am wanting to be slimer (200lbs) and healthier by July (30th birthday). also i am a stay-at-home dad for my 2 year old triplet sons / work 3 nights a week in a retail store. for obvious reasons i dont have a gym membership and wouldnt have the time if i did. i need to workout at home. i have a few free weights and am going to buy a weight bench. so all of these things taken into consideration......PLEASE HELP ME!!!....anyone. thank you