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Sheriff: Woman Sat on Toilet for 2 Years
By ROXANA HEGEMAN – 4 hours ago

WICHITA, Kan. (AP) — Authorities are considering charges in the bizarre case of a woman who sat on her boyfriend's toilet for two years — so long that her body was stuck to the seat by the time the boyfriend finally called police.

Ness County Sheriff Bryan Whipple said it appeared the 35-year-old Ness City woman's skin had grown around the seat. She initially refused emergency medical services but was finally convinced by responders and her boyfriend that she needed to be checked out at a hospital.

"We pried the toilet seat off with a pry bar and the seat went with her to the hospital," Whipple said. "The hospital removed it."

Whipple said investigators planned to present their report Wednesday to the county attorney, who will determine whether any charges should be filed against the woman's 36-year-old boyfriend.

"She was not glued. She was not tied. She was just physically stuck by her body," Whipple said. "It is hard to imagine. ... I still have a hard time imagining it myself."

He told investigators he brought his girlfriend food and water, and asked her every day to come out of the bathroom.

"And her reply would be, `Maybe tomorrow,'" Whipple said. "According to him, she did not want to leave the bathroom."

The boyfriend called police on Feb. 27 to report that "there was something wrong with his girlfriend," Whipple said, adding that he never explained why it took him two years to call.

Police found the clothed woman sitting on the toilet, her sweat pants down to her mid-thigh. She was "somewhat disoriented," and her legs looked like they had atrophied, Whipple said.

"She said that she didn't need any help, that she was OK and did not want to leave," he said.

She was reported in fair condition at a hospital in Wichita, about 150 miles southeast of Ness City. Whipple said she has refused to cooperate with medical providers or law enforcement investigators.

Authorities said they did not know if she was mentally or physically disabled.

Police have declined to release the couple's names, but the house where authorities say the incident happened is listed in public records as the residence of Kory McFarren. No one answered his home phone number.

The case has been the buzz of Ness City, said James Ellis, a neighbor.

"I don't think anybody can make any sense out of it," he said.

Ellis said he had known the woman since she was a child but that he had not seen her for at least six years.

He said she had a tough childhood after her mother died at a young age and apparently was usually kept inside the house as she grew up. At one time the woman worked for a long-term care facility, he said, but he did not know what kind of work she did there.

"It really doesn't surprise me," Ellis said. "What surprises me is somebody wasn't called in a bit earlier."
 
Yeah, that's so weird that two people let one situation go this long. The story is so fragmented it really expands the level of questions one would like to hear answered.

This blows away the story of the lady in NJ whose couch fabric attached itself to her skin.

Crazy world.
 
omg, we were just talking about this in class today.

That BF was a total enabler....wasn't there anyone in her family that noticed she was not around anymore?? its totally crazy.
 
Ew, ew. I guess she didn't bathe for two years either. Ew. (Queen Isabella of Spain only bathed twice in her life, once when she was born and the second time when she was married, I think. Lots of old European royals detested baths.) Ew, ew. Ew. This cannot be real.
 
So the story is generating ink. This cracks me the hell up how the family was 'concerned' and all the 'love' now spilling out to the media....

Last Updated: 2:50 AM Mar 15, 2008


The family of a Kansas woman who spent two years sitting on a toilet is speaking out.

Pam Babcock was discovered by authorities physically stuck to the toilet in her Ness City home. Her boyfriend claims Babcock stayed in the bathroom on her own, but her family doesn't believe it.

Carmen McNamara spoke to KAKE News Friday evening from her Arizona home. During the conversation, she explained that Babcock's life changed dramatically when she met Kory McFarron.

"We love Pamela to death.," says McNamara. "Her family loves her very, very much. I, like a lot of others right now, think there's more to this story that Mr. McFarron isn't telling."

It's simply an astonishing story. McFarron told us earlier this week that he never held Babcock against her will. But, even so, the sheriff of Ness County says he still could face criminal charges for not getting her help sooner. Meanwhile, Pam's cousin says it's not like her family just forgot about her.

McNamara says, "We would send letters and telephone and anything to get in touch with her. We'd physically go to her residence and he would tell us that she doesn't want to see or talk to her family. And eventually, SHE would tell us that."

McNamara says her family has been worried sick about Babcock for years. They had no clue what she was enduring.

"Do you call it brainwashing?" Babcock asks. "What do you call it when you have a family member who's now an adult and they used to always love their family, love spending time with you. Now, all of a sudden, she's moved in with someone and won't see us."

Pam Babcock remains at a Wichita hospital where officials say she's in fair condition. It's up to the Ness County Attorney whether to file any criminal charges against her boyfriend.




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A man should be charged for allowing his girlfriend to sit on their toilet so long that her body became stuck to the seat, the sheriff said Thursday.


Ness County Sheriff Bryan Whipple was among authorities who discovered the woman last month living in the bathroom of a mobile home she shared with her boyfriend, Kory McFarren.

"The house was cluttered but not in shambles," he said. "The smell was overpowering — a terrible smell about the house, obviously coming from where she was at."

McFarren, 36, told police his girlfriend, Pam Babcock, 35, had a phobia about leaving the bathroom and may not have left the bathroom in two years, although he's unsure how long she was in there.

He said during that time, he brought her food, water, and clean clothes.

"The only thing I am guilty of is I didn't get her help sooner," he told The Associated Press on Thursday.

The sheriff said that judging by the woman's condition — she had open sores on which the toilet seat would stick — it appeared she likely sat on the toilet continually for at least a month.

"She would have to be sleeping on the toilet," the sheriff said.

Whipple asked the county attorney to charge McFarren for mistreatment of a dependent adult. The prosecutor did not return phone calls seeking comment.

"The unfortunate thing is this truly is a case of two people, in my opinion, with diminished mental capacity," Whipple said.

McFarren, who works at an antique store, said he has been taking care of Babcock for the 16 years they have lived together. He insisted that he tried to coax her out of the bathroom every day. The home has a second bathroom.

McFarren said he finally called police Feb. 27 after he became worried because Babcock was acting groggy, as if she didn't know what was going on around her.

What emergency responders found when they entered the bathroom has left many in the town of about 1,500 people buzzing and authorities incredulous.

Whipple said the seat was taken off the toilet so the woman could be transported to the hospital for treatment.


Doctors at the Wichita hospital told the boyfriend an infection in her legs has damaged her nerves and may leave her in a wheelchair, he said.


Another story:

Sheriff Bryan Whipple, the second officer who arrived at the mobile home in Ness City where Pam Babcock was sitting on the toilet, asked prosecutors to charge Kory McFarren with mistreatment of a dependent adult.


However, Mr McFarren said his 35-year-old girlfriend - whom he had been looking after for 16 years - had a phobia about leaving the bathroom because of beatings she received in her childhood.

"I didn't do this to her. It was her choice. She is an adult, she made her own decision.

"It was my fault I should have gotten help for her sooner - I admit that," he added. "But after a while, you kind of get used to it."

Initially he told police that she had been on his toilet for two years, but yesterday he said he could not be sure: "Time just went by so quick I can't pinpoint how long."


"It just kind of happened one day; she went in and had been in there a little while, the next time it was a little longer. Then she got it in her head she was going to stay - like it was a safe place for her,"

Mr Whipple, who pried the seat from the toilet with a crow bar so doctors could surgically remove it from Miss Babcock, said the house was "cluttered but not in shambles" when he arrived.

"The smell was overpowering - a terrible smell about the house, obviously coming from where she was at."

Miss Babcock had open sores on which the toilet seat became stuck, suggesting that she had sat on it for at least a month at a time, the sheriff said.

"She would have to be sleeping on the toilet," he added. "She hadn't bathed for quite some time, I am safe in saying. She obviously was not keeping herself up."

But Mr McFarren said his girlfriend moved around the bathroom, bathed and changed into fresh clothes he brought her. He claimed they had conversations and a normal relationship - except it all took place in the bathroom.

The case has been the talk of Ness City, a town with 1,500 residents, and has made headlines around the world.

The county attorney, who is due to decide whether to charge Mr McFarren, did not return phone calls seeking comment.

"The unfortunate thing is this truly is a case of two people, in my opinion, with diminished mental capacity," Mr Whipple said.

Mr McFarren said he decided to call police on Feb 27 when Miss Babcock became groggy - as if she was confused, but awake.

Emergency responders found her fully dressed on the toilet, except for her tracksuit bottoms that was pulled down to her mid-thigh.

According to Mr McFarren, his girlfriend was unaware that she had lost feeling in her legs due to an infection that damaged her nerve endings. Doctors told him that she could end up in a wheelchair.

Mr McFarren, who works in an antique store, said he would still take care of his girlfriend if she came home.

He claimed he tried to coax her out of the bathroom every day. "And her reply would be, 'Maybe tomorrow,"' Mr Whipple said.
 
what a bunch of crap, I'm sorry, if that was my dd, i'd do WHATEVER it took to get her help. The family should be ashamed of themselves.
 
Old Post, I know.

Scary to say the least.

Bathroom thing isn't so out of whack, at least not from my view.

It's not neat that she had to do that, but neat that I of course am not the only one to do something like that. As I know that I wouldn't be, living in this world with so many ppl.

For me growing up, the bathroom had always been one of the only places in the house that had a lock on it. It was a safe haven. Somewhere to run and hide, when you were being chased. I am not talking chased,as in a fun hide and go seek kind of way either.

The bathroom, is my private place, my time, my alone safe haven. The door locks. I feel very relaxed, when going out, it's usually the first place I hunt down, just to take a breather. Or used to be, I've done some more work in that area.

He most likely met her when she was a bit better, she hadn't been triggered quite yet. Whatever she had or has hadn't hit it's true stall. She was most likely already having *problems* mentally. As was he, you don't get a pair like that and not have either one of them be 100% alright with themselves.

Truly disturbing, Yes.
 
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