shy girl?

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Proteinboy

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alright so this morning i saw this cute girl walking in the hall at school so i started walking and talking with her. We only had light conversation before like 2 times, and she added me on facebook and we chatted a little bit.
So i walked with her in the morning to the cafeteria and talked about my spring break and had some laughs. i sat with her and her friends and they didnt really talk much(i think kuz i was there lol).

the thing is, i was doing most of the talking. i kind of felt like they were acting out of the ordinary and being quiet kuz i was there, so i told a few more stories and asked about her spring break but she gave short answers like "it was good." or "i got my nails done". i only flirted lightly because it was the first conversation we had that was longer than 1 minute lol

i dont really know her, and i was just trying to be nice o_O i mean she's cute but i cant help but feel like i was getting some vibe from her that was either saying, "cool, but i dont know what to say" or "he talks too much". And when we left the cafeteria after the bell rang and we were walking in the hall, she didnt make much eye contact, like i wasnt there or something even though i was talking o.o

i was comfortable the whole time, its just its kind of hard for me to "read" quiet girls at times because i dont know what they are thinking.
its kind of been like that my whole life; quiet girls are hard to understand

was she being quiet b/c she likes me? was she being quiet kuz she was uncomfortable? was she ignoring me? o.o

anyone else have this?

hopefully she'l just understand that im trying to be nice and open up eventually.:azzangel:
oh, and add me on facebook :]
im jon van dine
 
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If she added you on facebook she must have something going on ;)

I'm sure you know that a lot of people, even if they may be really outgoing, can have a tendency to become shy around people they like.
 
matt182 said:
If she added you on facebook she must have something going on ;)

I'm sure you know that a lot of people, even if they may be really outgoing, can have a tendency to become shy around people they like.
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X2, I wouldn't say I become "shy" around someone I reallike, but modest would be a better word :)

But yeah, if she added you on FB she must not think you're too bad. And if she hasn't run away from you yet while chatting, she must not find you repulsive! ;)

Keep at it man! She should warm up eventually
 
yer still in high school right?

tip 1: women don't know what they want
tip 2: high school girls ESPECIALLY don't know what they want

shy, indecisive...a lack of clear signals....these are things I do not miss from highschool dating.
 
yeah. thanks for the input guys. il just be friendly and give it time before we might be :valintines:

and i agree, malkore...its kind of annoying when people dont let you know how they are feeling at all. :boxing_smiley:
 
Shy girls, eh?

Well... the only way to tackle it I suppose is leave her alone... if she really wanted to attract you, she'll come back for some more ;)

This is the reason why I don't bother dating girls my age, too indecisive, two faced and materialistic, hehe. (no offense. It might just be british girls)
 
Take advice from someone who lost his chance: go for it! The worst thing she's going to say is no. Highschool is a great time to get to know others, and I think it'll really set the base for you life. So if you like the shy types, then go for it. Is there a dance coming up? I think there is. Ask her to to be your date! Boy if I could travel back to highschool, I would have done things so differently. Ah, if there was only a time machine. Don't end up like that dude. There is only one way to find out if she likes you or just ignoring you and that's to stick on her like white on rice.

Here's the plan:

Step 1: Ask her to the dance or on a date.
Step 2: ??????
Step 3: Profit!!!!
 
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Dallen said:
Take advice from someone who lost his chance: go for it! The worst thing she's going to say is no. Highschool is a great time to get to know others, and I think it'll really set the base for you life. So if you like the shy types, then go for it. Is there a dance coming up? I think there is. Ask her to to be your date! Boy if I could travel back to highschool, I would have done things so differently. Ah, if there was only a time machine. Don't end up like that dude. There is only one way to find out if she likes you or just ignoring you and that's to stick on her like white on rice.

Here's the plan:

Step 1: Ask her to the dance or on a date.
Step 2: ??????
Step 3: Profit!!!!
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LOL I still laugh when I see that episode of South Park :xmas:
 
I think you instinct is right, PB; she is just shy. Try to get some one on one time with her and she might open up some. Oh btw, do not put duct-tape and rope in the car. :)
 
She sounds like hard work to me, find yourself an older woman who knows what she wants and you'll avoid months of mind-numbing conversations like:

You - What did you do on sping break?
Her - I got my nails done

Also, don't talk too much, if she likes you then chances are she thinks you're cool so there's no reason to open your mouth and spoil the illusion

;)
 
Dallen said:
Take advice from someone who lost his chance: go for it! The worst thing she's going to say is no. Highschool is a great time to get to know others, and I think it'll really set the base for you life. So if you like the shy types, then go for it. Is there a dance coming up? I think there is. Ask her to to be your date! Boy if I could travel back to highschool, I would have done things so differently. Ah, if there was only a time machine. Don't end up like that dude. There is only one way to find out if she likes you or just ignoring you and that's to stick on her like white on rice.

Here's the plan:

Step 1: Ask her to the dance or on a date.
Step 2: ??????
Step 3: Profit!!!!
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This to be honest :)
 
matt182 said:
Yep, women are dumb when deciding who they pick. Wait until they hit at least 25 :p
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Pretty good advice here in general.

I know what you mean about shy girls though. My wife is probably the quietest, most shy person I know. I am a pretty outgoing and friendly person - especially back in college when we first met. She was hot - I wanted to get to know her.

It will probably take you longer to get to know here base on "I got my nails done" kind of answers. If you like her keep talking to her and asking questions. She will eventually open up - then years down the road, she'll be the one who talks all the time. Trust me - I speak from expereince.
 
i dont really like shy girls; but i have nothing against them.

the thing is, she seems like the kind of person who isnt really that shy, but for some reason she was real quiet when i talked to her. again, i dont know her.

o_O im not going to ask her to a dance quite yet because i honestly dont like her like that yet to ask her out. i hardly know anything about her except she got her nails done over spring break and that shes italian and brazillian.
idk about you guys but i go by personality, and since i dont know her yet im not asking her out.
i made that mistake before :eek:

thankyou all for your input i really appreciate your help!
 
Know what they say.... shy in public, crazy in the sac
 
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