Shes got me confused. lol

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CanadianGuy

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Ok, well heres the story....

I met a girl about 3 years ago. We were just friends but I always knew we were attracted to each other. Fast forward untill now, and shes single and we've hung out twice already... Both times lead to sex.

I know that sounds great for a guy, and it is.. But the thing is, is she is moving awayin a month..Shes not my type for a relationship, but the more we hang out the more I keep thinking of her. Shes a great person, and we get along great. I don't want to tell her "Hey we can't hang out anymore". Because I don't think i'll see her for a very long time, if ever again. And I don't want to tell her "hey no more sex, just friends" because im starting to feel like its more than just friends.

I'm just confused and I know if I ask my buddies what to do they will just laugh in my face. :smilielol5:

Any tips on what to do??
 
Is she moving very far away? and do you really not want to go out with her? Because if you both feel strongly perhaps you could carry on with a long distance relationship? although most people who are in long distance relationships are already very in love and well established.

You need to talk to her really, and figure out how she feels about all of this, because she might agree with you, and then you guys could continue to be friends. If not and she wants something more, it would be kinder to you both to cut of all contact.

hmm its a tough one :\ good luck though :)
 
Hey Ella,

Nah, im not one who belives in long distance relationships. We both like each other, but shes moving and I think we both just don't want a relationship at this time in our lifes. Haha, its just a weird feeling. Shes very cute, and very nice, and a very good friend. .

O well, its life. I guess just have fun while it lasts!

It sure is a tough one.

Thanks again for the reply.
 
Same exact thing happened to me a few months ago, except I was the one moving away..I don't believe in long distance relationships either..So we pretty much agreed to enjoy the rest of the time we had together, and let what happens happen. I think you should just go with the flow and enjoy it while it lasts. When I told my friends that, they questioned why I would want to spend time in a "relationship" that I know would end. The two most obvious answers I could think of was that one, most relationships do end, people just don't know when that will happen (we did), and two, being together with someone you really like, even if for a short period of time, is better than no time at all.
 
Tamago said:
I think you should just go with the flow and enjoy it while it lasts.
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That's pretty much what I was going to say as well. Continue to see her and have a good time. If the long distance thing doesn't work out, you'll have some nice memories.
 
hmmm trust you guys to say "go with the flow".... hahaha

I guess I'm probably too much of a romantic and a worrier - but whatever works for you - nice to hear you have a conscience, lol
 
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Maybe I'm different, but generally, to me, I see it as, if that's the person you keep thinking of, then that's the person you're with. Is there anything in particular keeping you from persuing this person, and yeah, I mean over distance, as in following. What's more worth it for you?
 
Hey guys,

Thanks for the replys. Were still seeing each other, but only for now. Shes gone in a week. It was worth it, and im happy it happened.

Thanks again.
 
CanadianGuy said:
Ok, well heres the story....

I met a girl about 3 years ago. We were just friends but I always knew we were attracted to each other. Fast forward untill now, and shes single and we've hung out twice already... Both times lead to sex.

I know that sounds great for a guy, and it is.. But the thing is, is she is moving awayin a month..Shes not my type for a relationship, but the more we hang out the more I keep thinking of her. Shes a great person, and we get along great. I don't want to tell her "Hey we can't hang out anymore". Because I don't think i'll see her for a very long time, if ever again. And I don't want to tell her "hey no more sex, just friends" because im starting to feel like its more than just friends.

I'm just confused and I know if I ask my buddies what to do they will just laugh in my face. :smilielol5:

Any tips on what to do??
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Sometimes, the best person to listen to is yourself. I think you answered your own question when you said this...

CanadianGuy said:
Shes not my type for a relationship
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