Relationship Problems

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Allahkaba

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Hey guys, need some advice here.
I've been going out with this girl for about 3 months. Today a friend of mine called and said shes been cheating on me with 3 other guys.
I don't know if it's true yet, will by tomorrow. If it is, what the hell do I do? How do I handle that?? I really liked her.
If it's not true, I know what I have to do to my friend who lied.

This kind of thing always happens to me.:mad:
 
well, if what u say is true, i'd totally dump her if i were you. but, don't accuse unless u know for sure it is true b/c it could just be a rumor. if it's not true, then u should straighten out the ones that r telling lies.

if it's true, i wouldn't waste your time w/her. there r plenty of fish in the sea! and why would u want to be with someone who will hurt u anyway, that's not love and it wouldn't be a healthy relationship.

good luck to you, i hope it works out and isn't true.
 
Well it's happened to me, so I know where you are coming from.... if it is true, she isn't worth your time anymore, simple but it hurts, on the other hand if it isn't, and you find out someone has been not truthful with you, well how can I say it gently, deal with that person!!:mad:
 
Man, before you do anything talk to her first! I'd guess that your mate has heard something through the grapevine so it could be complete BS!
 
I think my first question would be if you and your gf have mutually decided to be exclusive - to see only each other. If that's the case, then ask her about it. Based on that then decide what to do next.
 
chrissmith921 said:
If she is cheating on you, get it on with her best mate.
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OMG!!! :eek: Thats aweful Chris!!!

I think the first thing you should do is have a face to face talk. You never know if people are just jealous of the two of you and want to start some crap. And no matter what, if you feel you have any doubt, then move on!!
 
definately talk to her, honestly is the best policy, find out what is going on before making any rash decisions. if what you've heard about her cheating is wrong, set those people straight immediately. good luck!
 
interesting

first of all your 18....so I would not sweat it.

Secondly, just simply ask her, tell her be straight with you and don't get angry, if she is, just move on, dump her and go "fishing" again. If your friend heard the rumor and is not sure if it is true are not, then do some investigating.

Bottom line is trust...if she is cheating..then just move on, because you will never trust her, if she is not then I would have your friend explain what he heard. Trust is a mutal thing, either you have it or you don't.
 
1. you're 18
2. you two are just dating

So, if she's cheating, ditch her. She's not even worth your time.

However, since I'm a vindictive SOB, I'd inform the other guys' she's seeing on the side, in case they're also under the assumption that it's an exclusive thing.

and MellowGa is right, trust and respect are reciprocal. neither is of any benefit if the other party isn't holding up their end of the deal.
 
Talked to my friend, his story did a complete 180.
I dealt with him.

Thank you all for your great responses, that was the perfect advice I needed!
 
Yeah it worked out, my friend was lieing, trying to break us up so he could try his luck with her.
My and my friends taught him a lesson about that.
Now I have to think of something really special to make it up to my girlfriend...Since I accused her and all...:confused:
 
eww what a jerk, i had a similar situation with tony actually, my ex best friend always made it look like tony was such a jerk and like he was totally cheating on me, except she didnt want to get with him, she just wanted me to be single like her, thank God i didnt listen to her since we are married now lol.
thats great definately make it up to her. you should take her somewhere she really loves to go, and maybe write her a sweet poem about how u feel about her? good luck with everything!
 
Allahkaba said:
Yeah it worked out, my friend was lieing, trying to break us up so he could try his luck with her.
My and my friends taught him a lesson about that.
Now I have to think of something really special to make it up to my girlfriend...Since I accused her and all...:confused:
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Not to "TOOT" my own horn, but I knew it!!! I've been in the same situation before! People really suck!!:mad:
 
You still need some relationship adivce, my friend. On the friends you make. I think it's time to drug him, take his clothes, tatoo nazi signs on his back, and drop him off in the ghetto part of town.
 
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