I don't get the dress and hairstyle thing.
I wonder though if it is as bad as they say it is. Most of the girls don't know what is going on in the world. Are they really missing much?
I suppose what it comes down to is freedom. If your parents decide to live a different lifestyle than others, would it be fair to drag the child along? I suppose every parent wants what is best for their child, but there should always be a choice.