Please read and advice this young soul haha (:

itsmelinda

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Good night, morning, afternoon, depending on your time zone, everyone :) I'm Linda, a 18 y/o girl. I've always struggled a bit with my weight. I'm 165 cms, 168 lb (76 kg). Probably... three years ago, my weight was of approximately 65 kgs, and by then I was already trying to lose those extra kgs. I used to be thin when I was 5-8 y/o, but as I grew up, I started gaining more and more weight. Now I'm at a very high number, and.. I could look better If I lost some of those pounds. Chubby girls are OF COURSE pretty, all sizes! But there's something about thin-fit bodies, I want to reach that kind of beauty harmony with a fragile/harmonious looking silhouette... I don't know if that makes sense haha.

But there's a little problem (big problem), I'm not truly motivated in anything, I haven't been for a few years, and I've tried to motivate myself, but then I get lazy to even do that. Do you have any suggestions on where can I get some motivation? Books that I can read? I don't even like reading as much, but I want to try to do something to motivate myself, first... to live a life, and then (I think) If I find myself motivated enough on living, losing weight will be easier.
Probably some story you can share with me? videos? tv shows? books? anything that can help me. I'm aware of how a healthy life should be lived, I'm just not practicing it, and I want to give it a try, but again... I get so lazy, and It's embarassing to say it because... of course, I could just stop being lazy, but for some reason it's very very hard. And I know everything (when it comes to weight loss) is hard, but I want to find motivation first, that's what I feel I need. That's what I know I lack.

Thank you in advance... I'll be consistent on visiting this site.

PS: I'm already trying to be healthier, and I've stopped eating afternoon snacks (chips, cookies) and that's what's made me drop probably 4 lbs, which is a yay! :)
 
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