Please Help Me Quickly

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thenicestthing

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This might be a lost cause but, i have a HUGE event in 21 days. They boy I think I will die without is going with me, and i think i might just have to jump off a cliff if something doesnt happen.. This might just be a normal winge about needing to loose weight fast, I have been trying to loose weight forever, but i am just so weak.

I have 21 days.. Does anyone think 8kgs is possible in that time? i have really gotten desperate now, do you think i could loose that amount in that time if i ran for two hours every day in intervals and ate pretty much nothing / healthly..

Height: 170cm
Weight: 84kgs

:( :( :( :( :( :( :(

Thanks for reading, this really is a last resort, i am at the point of crying myself to sleep every night because i know i will never be with him because i am to ugly.

Anything tips at all just to move a few kgs for the thing..
 
First and foremost, I think you need to work on your mind before you work on your body. People who associate beauty to being skinny usually experience a big let down when they lose the weight. Don't let your weight be your identity, as much as society pushes for it to be. Be stronger than that!

That is a lot of weight to lose in 21 days. More than 5 lbs per week! If this guy is so shallow that he would only be with you if you lost the weight, why would you want to be with him?

I certainly wouldn't recommend anyone your size try losing the weight that quickly.

If you are ever ready for setting up a long term healthy planned that is centered around a good nutritional strategy, feel free to look me up and I will certainly offer a helping hand.

Best of luck!
 
ditto to steve....

Hun, no guy is worth the pain and suffering...really...it may feel like it...but cross my heart no guy is!!! Work on yourself for yourself before you even try to do something for anyone else...youll benefit from this in the end :p

Saying that...we're all here for you and will give you any tips and suggestions to live a healthy life....but exhausting yourself in 21 days is not healthy so its hard to give tips and suggestions for that...good luck hun.
 
Why do you think 8Kgs is the magic number? What if you lost 4Kgs? I'm sure you can get something noticeable done in 21 days if you work hard, just dont put unrealistic goals on yourself. Your body will start to change if you eat healthily (at least 1200 calories a day) and exercise (do both cardio and heavy weights). You can take control of the situation to an extent, but your body will only lose weight so quickly. If you literally starve yourself for 21 days, chances are you will make yourself sick-which usually doesnt translate to looking hot. But just by exercising and eating healthier you can change the way you feel, the way your skin looks, your posture, etc, and you will lose some weight (just not 8Kgs). So dont look for a magical number that you think will lead some guy to like you. Like LynnZ said, no guy is worth it. Plus, life will go on after this event and you will have the chance to lose more weight and impress him then, or it may turn out that once you start losing weight and feel better about yourself, he may not be good enough!
 
I think you could die if you tried to do that.
I'm serious. You have to eat even if you dont work out. I mean, you HAVE to.

I want to know what is so great about this guy. Someone who doesn't like you for who you are should be flushed down the toilet, in my opinion.
No one should be judging you based on your weight, and you should only want to lose weight because you love yourself.
If you try to lose weight this way, you will be very likely to gain it back.
 
I know the feeling... I know exactly what you're going through. But basically one of two things is going to happen. 1. You'll work your little heart out, pour everything you have into losing 8kg in 21 days and even so, you're body just won't respond the way you want and you're disappointed. Or 2. You make all these big plans to lose the weight and get excited, but realize you're plan is just about impossible to follow and then feel crappy about not being able to stick to it.
Be kinder to yourself than that. There's no point in learning the same heartwrenching lessons over and over. Believe me :)

Aj
 
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