Sorry for the sensational topic title and the NOVEL below but . . I'm at a loss. So much conflicting information out there. I've heard to eat less, eat more, do this, do that, etc.
A short history so you know where I am at: I've been at this since last January (2008), and have lost probably 80 pounds, possibly more, possibly less (the scale didn't go up that high!) Right now I'm at 345-350, and have been there since late Fall. I'm 6'3, 26 years old. I exercise 5 times a week, though certain weeks it may be 4 times, and occasionally I go out all out and do 21 days straight.
Almost 10 years ago, I lost 120 pounds (eating 1200 calories a day, even less . . I was young and thought less calories = better) and made it to about 250. As the years went on, I put it back on. I quit smoking 2 years ago (March 2007) and put even more on ..
So last January I started again, with Tae-Bo tapes and cutting out junk-food. To be honest, even then the weight seemed to come off slow . . but it did come off. Then, around March, I switched over to the Treadmill. (Generally I run/jog for about 20 minutes and then walk another 20 minutes, though there was a time I did 25-30 minutes jogging and another 20 walking). I did SlimFast for Lunch (w/ a piece of fruit), and had a decent sized dinner (no junk food). I also DRANK HEAVILY, 1 to 2 times a week, and splurged on food occasionally (like having Buffalo Wings on a Saturday).
But still, the weight came off . . slowly, but enough to feel satisfied.
But I started to feel frustrated. I wanted more. It was time to get serious . . So in the Fall I did some research, and got help on my diet. I was shocked to see that my general knowledge of weight loss was crap.
With some help, I started a low carb diet where I wouldn't really worry about calories or fat, just carbs and sugar. Plus, I could have a CHEAT MEAL once a week. It seemed like a dream come true at first (Buffalo Wings for dinner! Pizza or whatever I want once a week!) . . I also stopped drinking except very occasionally (once a month roughly . . I figured that alone would sky-rocket my weight loss . . no deal). I went on fish oil pills, and drank a lot more water . . I also drank Green Tea, though admittedly not as much as I should have.
I even lost about 5 pounds in the first couple of weeks (if I remember correctly) . . but then, it stopped. I stuck with it for another couple of months.
Then, in January of this year, I buckled down, stayed on the diet, and hit the treadmill 21 days straight. I would weigh myself at the end of the month, as the final test for the low-carb diet. NOTHING.
So in February I went back to the diet of last summer (Slim-Fast, regular meal) . . and instead of just the treadmill, I alternated with the treadmill, a Tae-Bo tape, and the gym (lifting and then 20 minutes on the Elliptical) . .
Well, the month was up. Not much difference. Maybe 5 pounds or so.
So, I don't know what to do. Nothing is working! I feel like my metabolism is SHOT. I calculated my BMR and it says I need about 3500 calories to lose weight . . That sounds like a CHEAT day to me! Is that really accurate? (4500 or so to maintain)
I probably eat 2000-2500 as of now . .
Am I completely burned out? How do I get my metabolism back to a proper place? I do not feel like I'll lose weight with 3500 calories a day.
Any advice is appreciated. I am really at a loss. I just want to lose more weight!
A short history so you know where I am at: I've been at this since last January (2008), and have lost probably 80 pounds, possibly more, possibly less (the scale didn't go up that high!) Right now I'm at 345-350, and have been there since late Fall. I'm 6'3, 26 years old. I exercise 5 times a week, though certain weeks it may be 4 times, and occasionally I go out all out and do 21 days straight.
Almost 10 years ago, I lost 120 pounds (eating 1200 calories a day, even less . . I was young and thought less calories = better) and made it to about 250. As the years went on, I put it back on. I quit smoking 2 years ago (March 2007) and put even more on ..
So last January I started again, with Tae-Bo tapes and cutting out junk-food. To be honest, even then the weight seemed to come off slow . . but it did come off. Then, around March, I switched over to the Treadmill. (Generally I run/jog for about 20 minutes and then walk another 20 minutes, though there was a time I did 25-30 minutes jogging and another 20 walking). I did SlimFast for Lunch (w/ a piece of fruit), and had a decent sized dinner (no junk food). I also DRANK HEAVILY, 1 to 2 times a week, and splurged on food occasionally (like having Buffalo Wings on a Saturday).
But still, the weight came off . . slowly, but enough to feel satisfied.
But I started to feel frustrated. I wanted more. It was time to get serious . . So in the Fall I did some research, and got help on my diet. I was shocked to see that my general knowledge of weight loss was crap.
With some help, I started a low carb diet where I wouldn't really worry about calories or fat, just carbs and sugar. Plus, I could have a CHEAT MEAL once a week. It seemed like a dream come true at first (Buffalo Wings for dinner! Pizza or whatever I want once a week!) . . I also stopped drinking except very occasionally (once a month roughly . . I figured that alone would sky-rocket my weight loss . . no deal). I went on fish oil pills, and drank a lot more water . . I also drank Green Tea, though admittedly not as much as I should have.
I even lost about 5 pounds in the first couple of weeks (if I remember correctly) . . but then, it stopped. I stuck with it for another couple of months.
Then, in January of this year, I buckled down, stayed on the diet, and hit the treadmill 21 days straight. I would weigh myself at the end of the month, as the final test for the low-carb diet. NOTHING.
So in February I went back to the diet of last summer (Slim-Fast, regular meal) . . and instead of just the treadmill, I alternated with the treadmill, a Tae-Bo tape, and the gym (lifting and then 20 minutes on the Elliptical) . .
Well, the month was up. Not much difference. Maybe 5 pounds or so.
So, I don't know what to do. Nothing is working! I feel like my metabolism is SHOT. I calculated my BMR and it says I need about 3500 calories to lose weight . . That sounds like a CHEAT day to me! Is that really accurate? (4500 or so to maintain)
I probably eat 2000-2500 as of now . .
Am I completely burned out? How do I get my metabolism back to a proper place? I do not feel like I'll lose weight with 3500 calories a day.
Any advice is appreciated. I am really at a loss. I just want to lose more weight!