Newbie feeling down in the dumps

Chris Booth

New member
Hi everyone.

First time ever on site like this so go easy on me, lol.
I'm 38 years old, 6ft and almost 19st and gaining weight. I currently suffer from sleep aponea due to being overweight and was recently warned by the GP that I was going to become diabetic if I didn't change my lifestyle. I also suffer from depression and have done for many years, partly due to being overweight.
I've always struggled with controlling my diet. I work in an environment where take-aways are always being ordered by somebody and I also work shifts meaning it's hard to eat at the right time.
I used to do a lot of cycling and got my weight down to about 15st but since the birth of my daughter three years ago that gradually dwindled into no cycling at all. Partly through lack of time initially but bow I just can't be bothered anymore to be honest.
I visited my GP on the 16th August this year where I weighted in at 18.6st. Thats when I decided that I was finally going to get a grip of things. He prescribed me with some Orlistat and off I went. Since then I have pretty much just eaten salad whilst also trying to keep my cards low. Yes I've had the odd slip but on the whole I feel my diet has improved a huge amount and I feel sure that my trousers are feeling looser as a result.
My problem is that I weighted myself today,almost a month after I began eating better. I weighed 18.6st? How the hell have I eaten salad for almost a month, taking Orlistat too and lost zero weight? Trying to eat healthy had taken every ounce of will power I had and bow I feel like I've had a right kick to the bo**ocks! My motivation has gone out the window in an instant and I can already feel myself wanting to eat something bad. I really needed to see a loss to keep me going and I just haven't had it.
So I suppose my question really is where do I go from here?
 
Well all I can tell you is what works for me and I too have a body that likes to hang on to weight. I count calories. I count them pretty meticulously. I measure portions... I have to do this because I did not estimate well. and I have found an exercise I can do consistently. I ride a stationary bike about 5 times a week. That along with 1600 to 1800 calories per day will slowly remove weight from me but I still have some weeks when I have done everything well and I still don't lose or even see a gain. You just gotta fight through it and realize you are in this for the long haul
Good luck...don't quit
 
Counting accurate calories (buying a food scale is key) and finding some form of cardiovascular activity you can consistantly do will help you get a strong base on this fight against weight gain. I suggest every morning, taking a 30-40 minute walk ( not too fast, not too slow) and trying to do that every day. It is going to be hard in the beginning because you have to wake up earlier, but you will begin to love having the alone time, and it will help you build a routine for you. it seems to me that consistency is going to be your best bet to reach your goals. Doing something consistently, over a long period of time, trumps having the perfect plan, that is not done regularly.

Hope I could help a little! Let me know if you have any questions!
 
I weighed 260 pounds at my heaviest lost almost 100 pounds. I would say 80% of weightloss is your diet and 20% exercise . I needed to reprogramed my mind and learn how to eat , what to eat , how to cook, meal prep ect. I changed the way i thought about food and exercise. I didnt focus on loosing weight i focused on being healthy everyday. Each person is different and you need to learn what will work for you. For me i could NEVER count calories . I did it for a week but it wasnt for me. It's going to be a difficult road ahead just know that you are stronger than you know. We all need to love ourselves and respect ourselves and treat our bodies well
 
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