Hi, I'm brand new here. I've tried so many times and failed to lose and keep weight off. I'm 65, (just), female, retired with some health issues. All the different advice out there is driving me crazy. Don't eat carbs, don't eat gluten, don't eat sugar, don't eat dairy, don't drink coffee, don't drink alcohol, give up meat. You know what I mean. I need something I can live with. I've been off and on so many diets that I'm always eating like I'm about to be deprived of all tasty food again. I think eating clean and tracking calories is the best thing for me. I want to increase exercise but I have health issues that are always tripping up my exercise plans. I catch a lot of colds because I have scar tissue from past sinus surgery which makes me vulnerable and when I get one, I can keep it for a while. My knees aren't so great, I have issues with my right shoulder, I've had problems with pelvic prolapse, etc., etc. I want to lose 40 to 50 pounds. I need your help. Thanks.