well I have only been eatin about once or twice a day,
GGAAHHH!!!! Stop that now, or I come slap you in the face with a cheeseburger.
and I know it cant be too healthy but I'm losing weight, and for the back fat it doesn't hang over my belt or anything it is pretty perky so I guess I have muscle under it I just need to lose the fat lol But I do some back work outs a pretty good bit. and I run about 2 miles a day.
Let me clear this up for you. It is so incredibly difficult to get enough healthy calories a day in two feedings it's sickening. I can barely do it if I only eat three meals and I am a good bit smaller than you.
Sure you are losing weight NOW but the speed and immediacy comes with a steep price mang. When you do up the calories, and you WILL up them at some point, you are going to store so much more of what you eat as fat than normal it will bounce you back to or most likely over where you were to begin with.
Even if not you will still put a load of fat and be somewhere between start and current and toting even more fat.
Second thing. There is no toning. There is muscle and there is fat. Remove the fat to see the muscle. Build the muscle. No toning.
Third: no spot reduction of fat. Ben is going to jump in and say some crap about certain things you can do with your hormones or glands or three toed unicorns to get some spot isolation of fat. Even if he's not spouting crap (which has happened) what he says applies to like 2% of the population. Have faith with simple steps 1st; like adjusting calorie intake and cycling exercise correctly.
You can run every day as long as you take a day or two a week off for rest n' recovery. It's not really that vital though. 2-3 sessions of moderate length (30-60 minutes anyone?) is fine. Ditto that for weights, which you do need to be lifting.