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kennywy

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Im a 16 years old boy,with around 185cm height and around 110kg weight. I was at around 70kg last 2 years,but i stopped to do any sports(mainly basketball) since that time because of examinations and some problems between friends. So i started gaining weight until now,i finally realised that i'm overweight. And a few days ago i received a birthday party invitation from a friend who havent see me for a long time. I want to lose weight real quick because the party is helding in the next 4 months(mid of july).
I know this is bad and unhealthy,but if i skip my dinner everyday since now,how much weight i can atleast loss? Or is there any other better way? I personally don't like to eat vegetables but if i really have to eat it,i will.
 
I wouldn't advise skipping dinner. But rather eat small portions through out the day. You mentioned you stopped sports. Well that is one of the reason why you gained the weight. I mean think about it. you were being active, this was a way for your body to burn extra calories. what you actually did was cut out an activity while eating the same amount of food. So reverse the process. Eat smaller meals, like chicken breast with broccoli, or sweet potatoes with some kind of fish and plenty of salads. You can eat nuts as snacks. But you must incorporate some kind of physical activity. You also mentioned exams. How about simple push-ups and sit-ups or body squats repetition of 30 each. this should not get in your way of studying.

As for the party in July a healthy way to lose fat is about 2-3 pounds a week. So you can lose up to 20-32 pounds by then. If you need me to write you an exercise plan I can give you a general idea. One that will help you lose weight all the while keeping up with your studies.

As long as you are taking action towards losing the weight you are going to make it happen.

Lastly there's got to be some kind of vegetable you like, there are vegetables that taste good that I am sure you haven't tried.
 
Hello Kenny and welcome.

I hope you find the help and advice, contained within various sections upon the forum, useful in allowing you to achieve your intended goal over the coming months.

Although they’ve been somewhat blunt in reply to your question, I do agree with the points raised by Necessary, not least in suggesting that skipping meals is a bad idea.

Regardless of your current weight, you should ensure that meals are eaten regularly throughout the day, reducing both the risk of hunger and the tendency to over-eat.

Additionally, although study and exams may have taken over your life recently, I’d also agree that exercising isn’t something that you shouldn’t have given up on either, for stress relief if nothing else.

With constructive criticism out of the way, four months provides more than enough time to lose a considerable amount of weight, allowing you to feel happier and more confident about attending the party.

It will require application upon your part, since weight loss is something that will not occur without a change in your current habits. However, provided you’re willing to make changes, then you can comfortably achieve a weekly loss of 2-3lbs.

I can appreciate the reasons behind why you wish to begin losing weight quickly, Kennywy, but don’t consider reducing daily calorie intake to a ridiculously low amount in an attempt to witness an instant difference. Granted, a severe calorie reduction may work for a few weeks, but in the longer term, it’ll prove detrimental to your progress, in addition to leaving you with insufficient energy to exercise regularly.

In order to ensure sustained weekly weight loss, without the risk of the dreaded plateau, an initial daily deficit of 500Kcal will allow you to achieve such an aim.

As you’ve provided current statistics, I’ve taken the liberty of calculating both your BMR and TDEE, both of which you need to be aware of, since the deficit introduced between the two allows fat to be burned as your daily energy requirements continue to be met.

Based upon your current measurements, your BMR is 2046Kcal. This figure is how many calories your body requires in order to maintain your existence, while your TDEE amounts to 2455Kcal. Your TDEE is how many the body needs to maintain a certain level of activity. Given that you’re currently sedentary, I’ve multiplied your BMR by 1.2 in order to ascertain your TDEE.

To begin utilising the energy stored in existing levels of body fat, you need to introduce a daily calorie deficit of around 500Kcal. By repeatedly running a daily calorie deficit of 500Kcal, the body will quickly turn to burning fat in order to meet your daily energy requirements.

If daily calorie reduction is combined with regular exercise, in addition to reducing your existing weight, you’ll also improve your level of fitness and body composition.

Concerning diet, eliminate as much refined carbohydrate from your diet as you can, in addition to ensuring that daily protein intake amounts to 1g per lb of body weight. As you’re only 16, your body is still developing, so it requires amino acids to ensure that growth and maintenance is maintained towards adulthood.

As for your dislike of veg, I’d suggest that you experiment, finding offerings that agree with your palate. For example, I dislike the taste of green cabbage and cauliflower, yet I’ll happily eat spinach and broccoli. Additionally, instead of steaming veg, finely chop/ grate it and saute in a frying pan.

Lastly, as for exercise, in addition to the suggestions already put forward, I’d recommend re-introducing cardio exercise into your schedule. While basketball is a good choice, due to the periods of intense activity, it also wouldn’t hurt to include running into your exercise schedule either, focusing some of your training around HIIT sprint activity.

Equally, by joining a gym, you can also increase your level of weight loss and improve your body composition. Ultimately, the choice is yours, Kenny, but you do need to re-introduce a form of cardiovascular exercise in order to assist with weight loss.
 
Hi,

I would start by being slowly active again. Find something you enjoy or maybe go for 40 min walk each day while listening to a podcast?

If you like sports start playing them again. If you find something you enjoy you're more likely to stick with it in the long run which will lead to you being much happier and focusing less on weight but more on the fun aspect.

As for food, don't skip dinner as everyone has already said, I'm going to say the thing the you probably don't want to hear but it"eat your vegetables". They will fill you up so you don't feel full when you reduce your slightly more calorie dense foods.

I would probably just start with eating some protein , a lot of vegetables and some carbs in your meals. Just eat until you're just about full don;t stuff yourself. That with the exercise should be more than enough to get the ball rolling initially.

Hope this helps

AlexisW
 
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