Thanks for the advise!
I figured that might be the problem since I eat, what I consider very little, I eat a bowl of oatmeal and a coffee in the morning, a low-fat sandwich wrap for lunch with a few reduced fat crackers ( and maybe some hummus) and then a chicken salad or turkey/chicken sandwich for dinner. Toss a yogurt in there with some almonds and maybe a handful of sunflower seeds at work or a banana, and that is my diet EVERY day. On days off I may splurge and have Chinese or Sushi, but I rarely go crazy and try to stick to homemade dinners on those days. I'm starting to add a protein shake (low-fat milk, 1 scoop protein, banana and scoop of low-fat yogurt) to my diet to see what that does.
I run 2-4 miles at medium pace every other day with some intervals thrown in on good days and try to hit the gym on the other days if time allows. I get very little sleep so that could also be a reason for a slow metabolism.
My main concern is that I stay at 197 no matter what I do, 4 months of a New England winter I do very little in terms of cardio and I'm 197lbs. Fast forward to May-Nov and I'm doing tons of outside activity and I run, bike, etc. and still 197lbs.