This question definitely doesn't apply to the members here (I hope 
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However, lately I keep asking myself the question, how can people let themselves go just because they're in a relationship? I understand the thought a lot of people has is "I don't have to look good for anyone anymore", but if/when they become single again, they're all about getting back in shape/losing weight, cleaning up their act, etc.
If anything, you'd think they'd want to maintain their appearance to impress their significant other, and for their sake too. At least that's the way I see it. I haven't been in a "committed" relationship for a couple of years now, but I've kind of been seeing this girl since late spring now, and the more we get intimate :mrright: the more she compliments me on my muscles and definition. So, obviously it turns her on. Which in turn, gives me more motivation to improve and to keep her even more interested
My brother and his GF are a prime example of the "who cares" attitude. He's gained probably 40+ pounds, she's gained probably the same, maybe a little less :boxing_smiley: All from being lazy, smoking cigs, drinking beer and eating out. but mostly, from being lazy.. Hate to use them as an example on the internet for all to read, but they're still somewhat anonymous
Kind of dragged this question out, but I wasn't quite sure how to put it and I've been wanting to ask it for a while. So I finally figgered I'd ask
) However, lately I keep asking myself the question, how can people let themselves go just because they're in a relationship? I understand the thought a lot of people has is "I don't have to look good for anyone anymore", but if/when they become single again, they're all about getting back in shape/losing weight, cleaning up their act, etc.
If anything, you'd think they'd want to maintain their appearance to impress their significant other, and for their sake too. At least that's the way I see it. I haven't been in a "committed" relationship for a couple of years now, but I've kind of been seeing this girl since late spring now, and the more we get intimate :mrright: the more she compliments me on my muscles and definition. So, obviously it turns her on. Which in turn, gives me more motivation to improve and to keep her even more interested
My brother and his GF are a prime example of the "who cares" attitude. He's gained probably 40+ pounds, she's gained probably the same, maybe a little less :boxing_smiley: All from being lazy, smoking cigs, drinking beer and eating out. but mostly, from being lazy.. Hate to use them as an example on the internet for all to read, but they're still somewhat anonymous
Kind of dragged this question out, but I wasn't quite sure how to put it and I've been wanting to ask it for a while. So I finally figgered I'd ask