Weight-Loss Learning How To Eat

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Some of you may have noticed from some of my other posts I am a fan of Ross Enamait. I bought his book and have really enjoyed it. I also read his blog I really enjoyed an entry he had called Learning To Eat. It is nothing new but if you all are anything like me you need to re-read things you already know to stay on the path.

“I don’t eat cheat meals simply because I don’t like feeling like crap for the rest of the day. I prefer the taste of real food and also feel much better (physically) afterwards.”

Some readers misinterpreted my comments, and believed that I was referring to a psychological feeling. Please note that my comments were related to the physical after effects that often follow junk food consumption. An abbreviated list includes stomach pains, heartburn, indigestion, sluggishness, and nausea. I can’t count how many times I’ve seen someone shovel junk food down their mouth, only to complain for hours afterwards about how bad they now feel (physically). In my opinion, no food is worth this kind of misery.

One of the problems with dieting is the perception that you will somehow be deprived of certain pleasures in life. This perception is everything but true however. If we ever hope to slow the obesity problem in the world today, we need to spend more time preaching the benefits of a healthier lifestyle. An obese person already knows that it isn’t good for him.

Healthy Foods Taste Better

I’m in no way deprived. I don’t live to eat, but I do enjoy a well cooked meal. Healthy foods actually taste better. Unfortunately, most people in this world do not know how to cook. In a response to my last blog entry, Scott Kustes from the Modern Forager (great site) said the following:

“Junk tends to be either overpoweringly sweet or overpoweringly salty. Real food is earthy, minty, sweet, sour, savory, peppery, spicy, etc. I can make 10 different meals from ground beef, onions, and something green just by altering what spices I use.”

Those who struggle with weight problems are often uniformed. They need to realize that we aren’t all crazy. Life is good and we are not missing out on anything. You can’t expect to conquer a weight problem if you live the rest of your life in a perceived state of deprivation. I don’t live my life waiting for the next cheat meal to come along. I eat tasty foods every day of the week.

We all make choices based on personal preferences. You buy the shoes that you like. You buy the pants that you like. There is always a selection that you must wade through before coming to a purchase decision. The same idea holds true for food. You choose what foods you buy. And while some of the decision making process may be based on weekly sales or availability, much of the decision is based on what you want. What do you want to eat and why?

Unfortunately, the answers to this question rarely make sense. For example, who said that cereal is a breakfast food? Did our ancestors wake up and eat a bowl of Cocoa Puffs? Who came along and appointed cereal as the preferred breakfast food?

Perhaps a large commercial enterprise made the decision for you? Using Cocoa Puffs as the example, check out the financial statement from General Mills (the packaged food company that makes Cocoa Puffs):

General Mills

The food industry is in business to make money. Much of the world’s eating habits came from these powerful companies. As I quoted before:

“We first make our habits, and then our habits make us.” - John Dryden

Unfortunately, someone else has made many of our habits for us. The habit maker has priorities that do not involve your health and well being. Many modern habits are polar opposites to what the body actually needs. To overcome a problem with weight, you need to make new habits. These habits will not deprive you of anything. On the contrary, your quality of life will improve.

Over-eating bad food isn’t a reward. Perhaps someone else told you that it is, but when you consider the pros and cons, it simply doesn’t make sense. No one needs to over eat to enjoy life. Once you change your shopping habits, this will become more and more clear to you. Life’s greatest rewards do not include shoveling food down your mouth to the point of discomfort.

When I wake up early in the morning, it is common to see deer in my backyard. There are woods behind my house. The deer eat various grasses, weeds, herbs, etc. The woods are loaded with greens. A deer could eat all day if he wanted to do so. But guess what? I’ve never seen an obese deer stroll through my yard. And surprisingly, there aren’t deer appointed nutritionists or personal trainers. The deer simply eat the way they were intended to eat. Most humans in today’s world do not. Perhaps we could all learn something from a less intelligent animal.

Ross
 
Learning How To Eat Part 2

In my last entry, I stated that healthy foods often taste better than even the best junk food. The message that I hope to convey is that living a healthy lifestyle does not mean that you are deprived of life’s joys. Healthy does not equal deprivation. Healthy living is joyful living.

I received a few harsh responses to the entry however that essentially proved my original point. One responder said the following:

“Who are you to tell me what I should eat? I only have one life to live so I’ll enjoy it.”

This statement proves the original theory. The responder clearly senses deprivation when confronted with dietary change. When faced with deprivation, it’s natural to fight back with a why must we give something up mentality. This single response summarizes the problem with dieting as a whole. Diets lack long term success because the dieter feels as though he is deprived. You can only go on so long living with a sense of deprivation. This is the exact reason why we must educate those with weight problems regarding the healthy (and tasty) options that exist. You CAN and SHOULD enjoy your life. Life is too short already!

In addition, I’m not telling anyone what to eat. We all make our own decisions. I’m simply telling you that tasty foods can and should be a part of a healthy lifestyle. You don’t need to give up taste. Learn how to cook and you’ll find that many of the tastiest meals are actually healthy as well. I eat tasty meals every day of the week.

Living With Balance

Other responses to the entry suggested a balanced lifestyle. This would mean eating healthy foods much of the time, with an occasional treat every now and then. I’m all for such a plan.

I simply caution you against living your life anxiously awaiting your next cheat meal. For example, I know someone who has a scheduled cheat meal on every Saturday. I’ll run into him on a Monday and he’s already anxious for the week to pass so he can get to Saturday’s meal. He lives 6 days of the week in deprivation.

Health isn’t defined by the size of your waistline. It isn’t healthy (mentally) to live all week waiting for a chance to cheat from your normal schedule. You should enjoy each day to the fullest. I don’t crave cheat meals, simply because I eat tasty (healthy) food every day of the week. I’m not deprived of taste, and my body feels good afterwards. On the other hand, if I’m out with company and a cheat meal presents itself, I don’t lose sleep over it. I recently enjoyed ice cream with my son on his birthday. We all had a great time. I didn’t dream about the ice cream before and after the event however. It comes and goes, but each day in between is still enjoyed. I don’t live each day with the mindset that something is missing. No one should, and that is the entire point to my original entry.

Lastly, I’m all for self discipline, but it is clear that many are lacking in this department. Take a look at the obesity rates in the world. Telling someone to toughen up rarely works. The obese know that it isn’t healthy to live obese. This awareness obviously isn’t enough for widespread change. If we focused more time stressing the positives of a healthy lifestyle, I’m sure that we would see more willing to convert. As has been said many times, you’ll catch more flies with sugar…

Ross
 
Perhaps we could all learn something from a less intelligent animal
what makes you think deer are less intelligent than some humans? I've come across some pretty dumb humans... :D and when my family lived in Connecticut - we had deer in the backyard - they were pretty smart critters :)


. Unfortunately, most people in this world do not know how to cook
In my experience -it's not that they don't know how to cook -cooking is easy - it's too many people don't want to take the time to cook... and a home cooked meal is less time intensive than ordering take out -but it requires a little forethought and preparation - just a little -not a lot...

Healthy Foods Taste Better
substitute healthy with Real and i'd still be in agreement.. :)
 
When I wake up early in the morning, it is common to see deer in my backyard. There are woods behind my house. The deer eat various grasses, weeds, herbs, etc. The woods are loaded with greens. A deer could eat all day if he wanted to do so. But guess what? I’ve never seen an obese deer stroll through my yard. And surprisingly, there aren’t deer appointed nutritionists or personal trainers. The deer simply eat the way they were intended to eat. Most humans in today’s world do not. Perhaps we could all learn something from a less intelligent animal.

Fortunately for a deer there is no such thing as depression, anxiety, a broken heart, sress at work, BMW payments, booze, and 24hr Del Tacos. Ignorance is bliss I tell ya.
 
That was a good read, thanks for posting it.

This quote sounds like a before and after of myself:

“I don’t eat cheat meals simply because I don’t like feeling like crap for the rest of the day. I prefer the taste of real food and also feel much better (physically) afterwards.”

Some readers misinterpreted my comments, and believed that I was referring to a psychological feeling. Please note that my comments were related to the physical after effects that often follow junk food consumption. An abbreviated list includes stomach pains, heartburn, indigestion, sluggishness, and nausea. I can’t count how many times I’ve seen someone shovel junk food down their mouth, only to complain for hours afterwards about how bad they now feel (physically). In my opinion, no food is worth this kind of misery.

I had my gallbladder removed when I was 18. I'm 28 now and I just decided to start losing the weight now, even though my surgeon had told my mother I needed to get the weight off then. I always felt like shit after I ate shitty foods, but never did anything about it because the foods were like a drug.

I'm happy to say I feel much better eating healthier foods and he's really right. The foods just tastes better.
 
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Fortunately for a deer there is no such thing as depression, anxiety, a broken heart, sress at work, BMW payments, booze, and 24hr Del Tacos. Ignorance is bliss I tell ya.

True, but they do have hunters, weather, disease, decreasing habitat, and in most places natural predators.

So which is the better reason for bad habits? BMW payment? Or a forrest full of Elmor Fudds gunning for you and a track house being built where you have bedded all your life?
 
I agree with you! Healthy foods are better for you, make you feel better, and make it easier for you to lose weight and maintain weight over time. The problem is people have trouble finding healthy foods amongst all the non-healthy diet foods that are thrown in front of them at the supermarket.

Elizabeth (I CAN"T STOP SPAMMING)
 
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When I wake up early in the morning, it is common to see deer in my backyard. There are woods behind my house. The deer eat various grasses, weeds, herbs, etc. The woods are loaded with greens. A deer could eat all day if he wanted to do so. But guess what? I’ve never seen an obese deer stroll through my yard. And surprisingly, there aren’t deer appointed nutritionists or personal trainers. The deer simply eat the way they were intended to eat. Most humans in today’s world do not. Perhaps we could all learn something from a less intelligent animal.

Ross


Without gettng into the discussion of the intelligence level of deer, I couldn't agree with your message in this paragraph more! If more people knew how to eat as they were intended to eat, if they even knew what they were intended to eat, the world and the people in it would be very different indeed! Part of the problem is all the inaccurate info on what really constitutes healthy eating that's floating around out there.

Kudos to you Ross, for bringing this to everyone's attention!
 
Thanks for posting this. It just re-affirms what I already had finally figured out. To lose long term its not about going on a diet but eating what we should have been eating in the first place. Problem with that is with so many mixed messages out there and the diet industry having a hay day it's hard for overweight people to figure out what that is.

And I noticed that you said many lack self discipline, which may be true...I only know about me. But I've seen myself and others put themselves through some diets that most skinny people couldn't even handle so I really think it's more along the lines of what you said in the first post...people today really don't know how they should be eating. I'm not 100% sure I've even got it right at this point but I've definitely cut out the fast food and been cooking at home and eating more balanced.

Oh and as far as planned cheat meals, my hubby and I figured out pretty fast that wasn't a good decision. If we happen once in a while on the spur of the moment to eat something not necessarily healthy thats one thing but the planned cheat meals turned into all day cheating, then days of it. And honestly you're right...feeling that crappy afterward is NOT worth it. Especially since most the time the food really didn't taste all that great...it was just the whole idea that it was something we couldn't have. Now I just try and cook stuff we want but in better ways :)
 
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thank you for infomation ^_^
 
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