I cant stop crying.

[bmohearn]

i lost the promise ring my boyfriend got for me. i cant believe i was so stupid. I cant stop crying. i put it down somewhere when i went to get in the shower like a week ago. but i never found it. i feel so bad. he gave me his heart, and now i feel like i ruined it. i know he still loves me.. that wont change. i'm just upset and needed to vent.

 

[bmohearn]

i'm so stupid

i know he loves me. i'm just having a bad day. i feel like i'm never going to attain my weight goal. no matter how hard i try. im inspired by everyone here who works so hard, and yet feel that i could never do it myself. I realize now that i have to be happy with myself now for other things i can do.. not just what i look like.

thanks for cheering me up though. i still feel completely stupid for making a dumb post.

 

[maleficent]

dont feel stupid - -it was on your mind and it's better to get it out than keep it inside and raid the fridge...

the ring is just a thing - things get lost over time (or get swiped by those magical people who live under the stairs) - he gave you his heart - that's not a piece of jewelry.... his heart his still yours... just remember that.

and you will reach your goal - you just need to find your right motivation and i think you're dead on with liking yourself just as you are that should be a stepin the right direction

 

[Shrinking]

Sorry to hear you're having such a hard time.
You can lose the weight. I know you can. You had enough determination to join here, so you have enough determination to do it. Remember that it's all about steps... when you decide to lose weight, you commit to beginning a process. Every morning you wake up and re-commit to it. That means 2 things: it's not overwhelming, 'cause it's just one day, right?, and if you have a bad day (losing a ring, eating way too much, whatever it is) you start all over again the next morning by re-commiting. I know you can do it for a day. Just do it for a day, then keep repeating it. You can do it.