How to tell if...
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Raised eyebrows: If you girl looks at you and institivly raises her eyebrows, not a big movment, just a slight instictive movement, she likes you.
Showing the back of her wrists: If a female shows you the back of her wrists (Subconsciously) she is showing she is submissive of you and wants to be dominated by you. The back of her wrists are a vunerable spot. I know femanists will hate this but it's true, it's a behavior left over from cave man days.
Feet: If your standing and talking glance at the feet. If there facing you it means she is into the conversation, if they face elsewhere it means she wants to be elsewhere. This is just a sign that she likes talking to you, but it's a foot in the door, some of the best relationships are when friends get together.
Pushing out her breats: This is when a female pushes out her breats to try and get you to see her assests. Not sure if this one works well, especially with smaller breasts.
Playing with her hair: If she does this subconsciously while talking to you it means she is trying to make herself look better for you. Of course so many females know this one that they often do it just to annoy blokes.
Smiling at you: Duh, if she smiles at you she likes you, as a friend or as something more.
Showing the back of her wrists: If a female shows you the back of her wrists (Subconsciously) she is showing she is submissive of you and wants to be dominated by you. The back of her wrists are a vunerable spot. I know femanists will hate this but it's true, it's a behavior left over from cave man days.
Feet: If your standing and talking glance at the feet. If there facing you it means she is into the conversation, if they face elsewhere it means she wants to be elsewhere. This is just a sign that she likes talking to you, but it's a foot in the door, some of the best relationships are when friends get together.
Pushing out her breats: This is when a female pushes out her breats to try and get you to see her assests. Not sure if this one works well, especially with smaller breasts.
Playing with her hair: If she does this subconsciously while talking to you it means she is trying to make herself look better for you. Of course so many females know this one that they often do it just to annoy blokes.
Smiling at you: Duh, if she smiles at you she likes you, as a friend or as something more.
ok then. well you want a womans opinion here is mine. if she is paying attention to what it is you are saying and not looking everywhere else she's interested. the hair push is good she is opening up the facial area to see and be seen better- good eye contact. the head tilt - you know the one its the slight tiltto the side and if combine with the head sort of down but the eyes looking up at you thats really good sort of trying to look innocenta nd at the same time trying to lure you closer. the biggest ones the touch if see touches you slighly above the elbow and above that is a definate yes. man if she is there talking to you and throwing out little signials , smiling and some of the above mentioned your go to go bud. also if she exposes or highlights her shoulders thats a good sign too. open stance -so facing you square on arms uncrossed looking at you or sitting and turning her body toward you-esp shoulders and hips. also note haw close she is standing. go with your gut you guys always get so nervous and ignore the signs- we make them as obvious as we can with out coming right out and telling you. ido some of these things and watch the guys body language and if i get the feeling its a go i say something or give them my number- boys and men just don't read the signals sometimes and sometimes they are too nervous so it takes the pressure off them if i let them know i would like to get to know them better or that i'm into them. you can't start a fire without a spark. so look for the spark they can be awefully small. i will assume you are young so are the girls so its both of you figuring out things- older women are much easier to read bc we have things a little more figured out and fine tuned. hope this helps.
Bryn said:
Most of that stuff sounds pretty subtle and therefore useless, besides the smiling thing. For a me, the signs are basically, touching, laughing, giggling, etc. The obvious stuff. Look, a girl doesn't have to give you signs that she is into you before you start the car, you should already be on the road when you are reading the signs. Get my meaning?
ijt said:Cool, thanks.
I hear talking is the best way to make them feel comfortable around you...true or not?
I probably sound like a friggind nerd...good grief
If she wants you bad enough, she ain't gonna be feelin all that comfortable anyway. Yes talk to her. Use compliments sparingly. Or else you look like some kinda freak.
you: *run up* Mmm, you smell guuuud...
her: ahhhh! Molester!