I am cutting right now and the only thing that is even close to a cheat meal for me is a piece of wheat bread (2 times a week at most).
Is it a good idea to have a cheat meal or perhaps a cheat day?
How so? What kinds of foods? How often? etc..
any help much appreciated, thanks!
Let me give you this perspective:
One DOES NOT need to eat clean 100% of the time to lose fat tissue. For example, if 90% of the food you consume is hypothetically clean (and within your caloric limitations set), and you allow 10% of hypothetically bad food items (and this too falls within your caloric limitations), it is NOT possible for the 10% to wipe out the 90%--with things considered equal. The main thing that keeps the goal construction together is the base fact you kept your caloric restriction, and one WILL lose tissue when the smoke clears.
This is not saying one should not strive to eat clean, they should.
This may be a little off base, but I am going to write it anyway:
I dont remember what your goals are, but I want to leave you something to think about:
If its fat tissue you loss. I want you to think about what is happening to your body when you implement a deficit diet: You are forcing your body to "eat it self to fuel necessary functions".
Take a quick bite out of your arm and see if you like it. UH, not gonna do that? Why not? It may hurt? Bleed? Oh, you will need a band aide, possibly?
Hypothetically its the same way with the human body. It flat does not like having itself for dinner, and will fight you everyday with many types of ammunition at its disposal to let you know just how upset it is.
You MUST "out flank" this "whining" body to win and be happy. Or you will be the one off "whining" and the body will be ever so happy. CHOOSE. You have the power to choose,
the body does not and this is the primary difference.
There is ALOT of power in perception: It can be both good and bad. "STRUGGLE" to produce the difference.
This is a clip from "How I approached my diet" post I made a few months back: (for what its worth to you)
"I sat myself down, and wrote down every possible dietary weakness and strengths I possessed. I literally tore myself apart being honest. I developed a “On Limits Food List” and an “Off Limits Food List”. I evaluated my living environment and work environment, its associated effects and causes, and what would applicably have negative and positive effects on my goal, and set reaction in place)
I developed a list of bad food items that could be made to be more healthy that I liked (for example: Oatmeal cookies, and Peanut Butter Cookies, and replaced the ingredients in these to the more healthy alternative—like Splenda for the replacement of white refined sugar, and whole wheat flour instead of white bleached flour, and so on and so forth).
I developed a CLEAR strategy in dealing with my weaknesses (and changing ingredients in sweet items-like the aforementioned- is one example as it assisted with the “I want something sweet—DAMN IT!” type of situation).
There was NOTHING I wasn’t prepared for, Mentally, if my body began to resist or crave certain things as I progressed forward. This was key, and an entirely different writing. (and one I would do if asked, because the system I have in place could work for another person)"
I can help you do the same thing.
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You have to approach the cheat question with a large margin of self discipline with your mind being the arrow to hit your target.
Having "controlled" times of so-called cheat meals is the main issue. One can have cheat meals, just dont have these cheat meals control you and thus spin you out of control. One wants to use cheat meals to keep one inline with their goals. When one develops a diet plan when deficit dieting, I always feel one ought to have a plan in place to stave off---the for sure to come--cravings for something sweet or something one really shouldnt have.
Develop this plan.....think about....present an idea...and I will look at it and help you. I want YOU to develop the plan of attack--because only you know yourself
There have been times, where I was within my own caloric limits and felt hungry and just drank huge amounts of water----I had no feeling to eat afterwards, and pissed alot. LOL. There were other times, I would get a whole head of lettuce, and no calorie dressing, and eat the entire thing. LOL. I had no desire to eat lettuce again for days. LOL.
Kept me on track......laugh all one wishes. LOL. Possibilities are ENDLESS to fight the body fighting YOU while in deficit.
Best wishes,
Chillen