Hi, I am new and looking for advice / guidance

sunflowers271

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Hi!

My name is Beth and I am looking for a community to share thoughts, vent frustrations, and look for advice from people who have had similar experiences and frustrations. I am 41 years old, will be 42 in June and I am back in a pretty active workout routine. I have been in fitness since my early 20s and have yo yo-ed in weight more than I care to admit. I am currently on medication for hypothyroidism, have had fertility treatments a little over a year and a half ago, and in Dec. 2013 had emergency surgery to remove a non-cancerous brain tumor.

Before the tumor was removed, I was at my highest weight since high school (175 lbs). Once the surgery was over, and I am sure it was because I was not able to eat for about 2 days, but I lost down to my low weight (151). I ate healthy while recovering, drank a metric ton of water, and started exercising on an air strider once I was able. About a month after the surgery, my weight started going up and before I knew it, I was up 15 lbs. Go figure. Went back to the gym when I was able, started slow and worked my way up, but never really pushed myself like I could. I went through bursts of activities, never really sticking with it, and with the new year, I am feeling motivated to be at my low weight again and then lose 10 more pounds. So, here is my frustration, and I may need a mental check ...

I am starting week 3 of better, healthier eating (I refuse to do meal replacement shakes because I want to have sustenance to give me energy as I am active and to hopefully speed up my apparently crappy metabolism). The past two weeks, I have gone to the gym 6 days a week. I keep up with food intake and activities/calories burned on myfitnesspal. I am drinking about 100 ounces of water a day (well, trying anyway). I am doing both cardio and strength training. I started from couch to 5k today - 3 times a week is my goal, I do Zumba once a week, PiYo once a week, Power Yoga twice a week, Body Combat twice a week, Body Pump Once a week, a 30 minute Spin Express once a week, and on Friday nights, I usually do my own cardio through the elliptical or Stair Master. I personal train once a week for 30 minutes and I try to add about 30 or 45 minutes of weights before cardio classes. My first week, myfitnesspal estimated I burned about 4000 calories in a week. The second week, I burned about 5600 calories. I am eating anywhere from 1260 - 1600 calories a day (depending on the day and how active I will be).

The scale is not going anywhere. I did drop 3 1/2 pounds by the end of last week, but that is it. Now, I know the scale is a number and I should look at how my clothes fit and inches lost; however, with ALL I am doing, wouldn't it be logical to lose something as a measurement of what I am burning. That is all I am using the scale as - a measurement to see if what I am doing is working. I was up a pound from last week (I weigh before training). Granted, water weight is not my friend and I did have a lot of water today and not enough bathroom visits. I expressed my frustrations to my trainer and she told me it could take up to three weeks or more to see changes. However, when I look at my friend's progress on myfitnesspal, they are posting often about weight loss (even if it is a little at a time).

Now regardless of the scale, I am going to keep doing this because I do feel good after I workout and considering my age and all I have been through, I am grateful to be this active. I just want to see results and am getting impatient.

Thanks for reading. :)

Beth
 
You may not be eating enough calories to be doing that much activity. Maybe talk to your trainer about that. The body does strange things when it doesn't get the required nutrition for the activity that we want it to do.
 
Thanks for the advice. I have been venting to my trainer as well and she actually told me something she read about. Harley Pasternak, a Hollywood trainer and nutritionist, has a smoothie program that is suppose to be healthy. I just do not want to do smoothies. I want to eat, preferably small meals, throughout the day. I notice when I drop a meal for a shake or smoothie and lose weight, I will gain back quicker. We have talked other things about how I eat and she has questioned me. So, she has an idea of what I eat now and will give advice every now and again if I need to change something, but nothing significant.

It could be I am eating too few calories. I have decided to change up how much protein I eat per meal and will skip the protein bar I have before all of my workouts. It was told to me by another fitness instructor that I could be getting too much protein, resulting in more fat burning and muscle development, which will cause weight gain. But, like you mentioned, bodies can do strange things, and my body is crazy. That is why I experience so much frustration. It is like pulling teeth to lose a few pounds, yet, I can gain it all back in a day or two when I have not changed my eating. I fluctuate a lot with weight and again, with as much as I do, it is just frustrating not to see myself continuing to drop as opposed to going up and down like a yo yo.

The key thing people keep telling me is that I am stressing way too much. Stress and weight loss do not go hand in hand.
 
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