Can someone please help me get on a plan for a health diet. Everyone says eat 6 meals a day. I know that probably is right, but I feel like I would be eating way too much. Can someone give me an example of a healthy day 6 meal plan. I do enough carido I believe, a very little weight training which I'm willing to work on, but I think diet is the key. Also does it matter if I do my cardio in the middle of the day and then my strength training later in the day? And (i know i'm asking a lot sorry-i'm just getting frustrated) can someone give me an example of what weights I should be doing and how much. I'm not wanting to get big, just cut/toned. I'm 37 with 2 kids, not overweight at all, just not firm enough. Please help!!!!