Help needed with weight lost!

BlimeyOmega

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Hello everyone! I am new to this forum and I hope you guys could give me some great advice! Generally, I am having issues reducing my weight and body fat. I started with a diet and exercise 6 months ago. About a month ago I started the BeFit in 90 workout program on Youtube. I have tried keeping a much healthy diet( Less sugars,junk food,carbo ) with sufficient rest and water intake. However, for the past 6 months, I am losing only 1 kilogram every month. Right now, it feels rather demoralizing about the results I am getting. Could anyone tell me if I am doing anything wrongly?

Thanks alot! :)
 
LOL unusual name...:smilielol5::biggrinjester::smilielol5:
 
you said that you try to cut back on sugar and the like....but to what extent? I think you should start with writing down everything you eat, maybe you are consuming more than you think??
 
Korrie is right - a big question is whether you cut back enough on these things...

My best advice would be to get a free account from .

Set up your profile information with things like your weight, height, gender, age and activity level.

Key in all the food and drink that you had in the day including quantities.

Key in all the extra exercise that you did in the day.

Try to be as accurate as you can with all the above information.

You then get a load of information including your calorie balance which is the calories that you burnt vs the calories that you took in. The difference indicates whether you deserved to lose or gain weight based on that day.

In general terms - people should lose about 1 pound of fat for every 3500 calories of deficit in the balance.

This is however fairly simplistic as there are all sorts of extra things like water retention and toilet activity that come into play.
 
I stopped drinking soft drinks or sodas just to satisfy my thirst( which i used to do). Currently, I only drink plain water and 2 cups of milk tea containing sugar a week. Well I am unsure if I am eating to little or I am simply not getting used to the reduced intake of food as I feel constantly hungry. My usual diet is just 2 slices of bread in the morning. A normal lunch and a lighter dinner. I tend to avoid fried food and those high in carbohydrates.
 
I could eat as you describe and have a definite deficit or have no deficit at all depending on exactly how much of everything I had... Some things have higher calories than people imagine... Activity levels play a part too.

It is perfectly possible to have no deficit at all and make food choices that leave you feeling hungry.

I really suggest you log your food through fitday and see what sort of deficit you are left with.
 
I agree with the advice to write down what you are eating. That awareness will help you a lot. Also be sure to visualize - change your thinking. Visualize yourself making good food choices, eating slowly, pushing away desserts, etc. Visualize your new healthy size. I write the amount I want to weigh the next week (like one lb down) and post it in different places in my home so I look at it a lot. This visualization tips helped me a lot to lose 33 lbs in 4 months as well as my healthy eating and exercise program.
 
I agree with the watching what your eating. It may also be that you could be eating too little, which is actually possible as your body holds onto body fat wondering when it'll get its next meal. You say that you're hungry alot? Have a piece of fruit if you get hungry, it's healthy and will fill you up - Like a banana. Or sometimes if I fancy something else i'll have a low fat or fat free yoghurt - you could always have this with your breakfast so you feel fuller longer x
 
Are you eating lean protein too? Protein really helps with satiety and it sounds like you need that. The amino acid leucine helps you lose fat and not muscle so check that out on google. Look for foods that have leucine in them.
 
BlimeyOmega ~ I am new here too! :)

Like the others I suggest logging your food & exercise to track your daily calorie intake vs your exercise. Personally, I use the APP myFitnessPal. It works great!

Keep in mind the closer you are to your goal, the harder it will be to lose the pounds! Also, if you took your measurements or you notice a significant difference in the way you look or your clothes fit you could be losing inches but not losing many pounds.

Someone else in the forum led me to a WebMD "BMI Plus Calculator" it's a fantastic tool that helps you figure out how many calories you should have based on several different factors (age, weight, height, gender, etc.).

I would try to change up your diet, plan a week ahead and make sure that you are not getting bored with your "diet" items. Personally I tend to load up on vegetables because you can generally eat as much as you'd like (to keep you full until your next meal) and have a low calorie count.

Try adding small healthy snacks (raw veggies/fruits) in between meals to help with your hunger!

Bump up the intensity of your work-out. Push yourself harder every time!
 
It might even be helpful to post your food and exercise daily for a week, then others can see what you are doing and give you actual advice.

Good luck, I do this in my diary here.
 
. Diet pills are always recommended whenever you go for a diet plan, but these diet pills should be taken with precautions, and should not be the sole reliant, you should also plan your meals accordingly, skipping meals is not the way to lose weight, that is a way to lose health, have your meals, go for a healthy diet and eat as much as your appetite needs. Go for an ample amount of vegetable in your diet they have high fiber values helping you stay full for longer and less calories. Fast diet pills, as the name itself suggests are a fast track way to achieve weight loss, but still they don’t work miraculously, of course they are a good way to lose weight fast, maybe the best, but still you require your healthy meals, time management of your food, manage work outs too with it.
 
Hi, I am am new to the forums but I am in the weight loss business and have helped many people lose weight. Sadly, there is no quick fix to losing weight, it is never an easy task to undertake. What you should be striving for is a change of attitude to food and look for that long term behavioural change. A female body (on average) has a recommended daily allowance of 2,000 calories. 3,500 calories over and above this makes 1lb of fat and conversely to lose 1 lb of fat you need to cut down by 3,500 on your calories.

1,000 calories a day, is considered a starvation diet and if you were to lower your calorie intake this far and sustain it over a number of weeks, you body would react by lowering your metabolism so that it does not die too soon. The human body is an intelligent organism, survival is its priority with procreation coming next. So, by lowering the metabolism it can get further on less food. But, if the metabolism is lowered then when you fall of your 1,000 calories a day wagon - and you will - then the body will "grab" all the calories it can, convert it to glucose for energy - continue to rely on the lowered metabolism and convert the rest of the glucose to fat and store it around your organs, middle, hips and bottom.
Therefore you need to be sensible, just cut down your calories intake to 1350-1500 calories a day, don't go too crazy exercising or you will run all the energy from your body and you are bound to compensate, just make sensible choices. 300 calories for breakfast, 300 for lunch and 750 calories for dinner.
The best advice on here that I have read is to create your own food diary, there are some great apps around for this, but use it, because at the end of the day, the human body recognises the energy balance and losing 1-2lbs a week is clinically proven over and over again to be the best way to sustain weight loss and keep it off for the long term.
Chooses the right foods - the human body needs 2-3 ounces of protein if you are female and 4-5 ounces if you are male, the rest of it goes down the loo, the body can't hold it or do anything else with it - a little may contribute to energy.
Starchy carbohydrates, pasta, rice, potatoes, peas, corn, cous cous etc contribute to your energy, the insulin produced by these carbs converts to glucose and if you don't use that energy up, it saves it for later as fat.
However, don't go on an all protein diet, this overloads your liver and kidneys and the extra fat creates atherosclerosis. Atherosclerosis (or arteriosclerotic vascular disease) is a condition where the arteries become narrowed and hardened due to an excessive build up of plaque around the artery wall. The disease disrupts the flow of blood around the body, posing serious cardiovascular complications.

So go for sensible weight loss 1-2lbs a week, practice portion control with something like the diet plate and do moderate exercise. Don't pop any pills that promise the earth, even some prescription drugs were taken off the market because of too many risks for heart attack and strokes, your health is precious so don't compromise it.
 
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That's a very nice posting thedietplate...

I hasten to add for any reader that these are very general terms and that I believe the numbers should be different for the very heavy.

I prefer to think in terms of 1% of weight per week being a reasonable goal for weight loss. The 1-2lbs often mentioned ignores the fact that 4lbs is totally healthy for someone who weighs 400lbs...

Similarly calorie targets could be much higher and give weight loss for a very heavy person - with room to reduce the calorie target as the project progresses...
 
That is a good response, Omega. I know that you are so true that we weight loss coaches tend to recommend 1 - 2 lbs weight loss a week but for a very heavy person, 4 lbs or even more would be in the healthy range. I lost 7 lbs my first week of weight loss (and I only had about 40 lbs to lose.) I'm down 33 lbs now and am really at a good weight. I think keeping track of what you are eating and also learning to exercise your "no thank you" muscle (I wrote a blog post about that), is important too.
 
LOL - I have seen some incredibly high weight losses in the first week (and the first week of getting back on track)...

I can remember off hand one person (TheKrinse) losing 10.6 pounds in the first week after Christmas (LOL as we were both in a challenge at the time and pounds lost meant challenge points)...
http://weight-loss.fitness.com/threads/17924-The-Blue-Team-Thread

I always tend to ignore weight lost in the first couple of weeks of any new project from any discussions of what constitutes a healthy weight...

There are so many factors involved that have nothing to do with how much actual fat is lost...

  • people tend to eat less sodium when they cut out the junk food - they also may track sodium and follow a lower sodium diet otherwise and sodium causes water retention in many people
  • people often drink more water and this has the effect of reducing water retention
  • if people drink more water it can also have the effect of reducing constipation which can have an impact on the volume of food weight/fecal matter being weighed
  • people may eat a higher fibre diet which can have the same impact on constipation and the scales
  • people may exercise more which can help constipation and the scales in the same way too
  • people may actually eat less volume as they start to think about portion control

I'll bet that there are other technical factors too - but those are just a few that I can envisage off hand and I am certainly no expert...

After the first couple of weeks - things like that tend to get out of our systems and we get to see a real rate of fat weight lost...

Never discount the impact of sodium... I will always remember when I was rushed into hospital in 2008... I was deep into my project and was weighing daily... After weighing - I had my weetabix and some water - that was all I had on the Wednesday... then the pains started and I was rushed into hospital... they knew that they would need to operate as I had a hernia and my bowel had got trangled up in my tummy button and they couldnt manipulate it free... I acquired a "nil by mouth" sign and was in so much pain that I would not have wanted to eat or drink anything anyway... They hooked me up to saline drips... I told them that I would gain weight and asked if I could not have them - but they insisted and said that it was necessary... Before they operated on the Thursday they actually took the weetabix that I had eaten on Wednesday back from me... They used a syringe and removed it via a tube that was up my nose... On the Friday they said that I could have small sips of water only... I was begging for food (I have always liked eating and I was no longer in agony)... They finally allowed me to have a tiny amount of sloppy food on the Friday evening... we are talking something like soup and custard... next to none of it either... I was starving... Then on the Saturday morning I was allowed to have 2 weetabix and milk - and they thankfully allowed me to go home...
I had spent three days where I had hardly eaten anything at all... Most people would imagine that I would lose weight... I didnt... I knew that the saline drips would have an impact... I actually gained something like 8.5 pounds... I weighed myself as soon as I got home and then ate something...
 
Keep in mind the closer you are to your goal, the harder it will be to lose the pounds! Also, if you took your measurements or you notice a significant difference in the way you look or your clothes fit you could be losing inches but not losing many pounds.

Someone else in the forum led me to a WebMD "BMI Plus Calculator" it's a fantastic tool that helps you figure out how many calories you should have based on several different factors (age, weight, height, gender, etc.).

It definitely gets more difficult the closer you get to you goal. abitofbliss - do you find that the calorie number from the BMI calculator helps you with that? Are you constantly changing and lowering your calorie intake?

I prefer to think in terms of 1% of weight per week being a reasonable goal for weight loss. The 1-2lbs often mentioned ignores the fact that 4lbs is totally healthy for someone who weighs 400lbs...

Similarly calorie targets could be much higher and give weight loss for a very heavy person - with room to reduce the calorie target as the project progresses...

Omega - it comes back to BMR, right? You should plan to cut down on a percentage of your calorie intake based on what your body currently needs.
 
The BMR is obviously part of the story. It shows the likely calorie burn for someone at total rest - doing nothing... it is the calories burnt by doing things like breathing and pumping the blood round your system... the things we do to just stay alive... I say likely because there are things like medical conditions that can effect things...

Then there is the exercise we do... and how often we do it - because there is an after-burn so we can effectively be like when people overclock a computer - and make our bodies generally burn more by exercising very regularly...

A lot of people do not end up having to work out the whole maths of it if they exercise regularly - because it is amazing how often simple rules of thumb hold true...

Most people will maintain weight on a calorie level of 15 times their weight in pounds.

Most people will lose weight on a calorie level between 8 and 12 times their weight in pounds... It sounds mad but if you try say 11 times or 12 times and see how it goes and if you lose weight - then stick with that... If you are having difficulty - try 10 times for a couple of weeks... You certainly should not have to go down below 8 times...

You want to settle on a multiplier as high as possible to give you more options of how things can reduce down the track... Also to vary a food plan to make it more interesting...

It is really easy to multiply your changing weight in pounds by say 10 or 11... It naturally reduces things as you lose weight and removes a lot of technical calculations and processes (that while fascinating for the enquiring mind) can over-complicate the whole process...
 
@Omega: Fair enough. I think that there is a lot of nuance missed with those rules of thumb, but as you say, it's amazing how often they hold true.
 
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