Hey Mom3, I dont want to discourage you, but I think you need to set small goals first and then go from there. What is your target day? Do you have an exercise plan?
I found that tae bo worked for me in the past, it might just work for you. I have two kids, and I gained alot of weight on my second pregnancy. I was able to loose most of it sticking with tae bo. Then I gained it all back once I stop working out regularly. I started back last week, and I am not giving up this time.