Guy Trouble ;)

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Sebani

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Well not really trouble. Just want your opinions.

So there's this guy in my grade and we're pretty good friends, but some of my friends thinks that he likes me and I'm guessing that some of his friends think that I like him. Just today, one of his friends told me it was so obvious, but I really don't think that I'm making anything obvious. I don't even know if I like him :confused: We're just really close. Like I get to wear his bling bling lol but I didn't see it as anything more.

Anyways what do you guys have to say about it :3 Anyone is welcome to comment.
 
no one here knows whether he likes you or not...you have to decide for yourself if you like him or not..if you do then do something about it. if not let it be. Only you can decide this..not your friends.
 
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(Wish I was 16 again)

Anyway, I'd tell you this. "Who cares what other's think"!!! I wish I would have taken this advice in my school days. Man, would life have been awesome. Instead of always worrying about what "he" said or "she" said I could concentrate on my own priorities, especially school studies and personal friends.

I know, I sound like a parent, well...because I AM. Listen, maybe talk to your "guy" friend and make it clear you just want to be friends, no matter what he "hears". If you want to be more than friends then that's also worth a talk to HIM directly, not through other people!

Peer pressure is rough, I remember. But, if you can master the technique of not concerning yourself about what other people think your life will be much more complete and enjoyable. Why worry?

Talk to you guy friend and tell him people are talking and ask him what he thinks, that's all. No big deal! If you really just want to be friends for now with him you must let him know and not worry about bystanders or what they say or think. WHO CARES!!! LOL

Chow!
 
Oh that's really good advice. Thanks :) I'm totally obsessed with what people think of me. I'm just like that. MUST STOP :D
 
Sebani said:
Oh that's really good advice. Thanks :) I'm totally obsessed with what people think of me. I'm just like that. MUST STOP :D
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I was the same in school....always caring what people thought....once you get that out of your mindset..you will be happier, like hermann said do things for yourself not others, i lost weight because i was sicking of seeing a fat unhealthy bastard in the mirror, not because popular society wants to see skinny people.
 
Sebani said:
That's so true. It's just I don't want to have a 'needy' or other negative reputation at school.
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how could you get a negative reputation by not going out with someone? Goddamn i am glad i dont go to school anymore.
 
lol It's really complicated. I do see your point and I'm definitely gonna go with it as oppose to my view. I duno i think they think I come off as a desperate person which I am so NOT lol. I'm just not shy like they are I guess.
 
Sebani said:
That's so true. It's just I don't want to have a 'needy' or other negative reputation at school.
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There, U did it again! LOL

WHY do you care what other's think? Remember? Hey, "reputations" are waaayyyy over-rated and once you are out of school who the heck even cares, nor will remember anyway. You said life is "complicated"??? Wow, just wait until you get out in the working force and have a family, a mortgage, kids, pets, bills, Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr I wish my life was "complicated" again and I was back in school! LOL Hey, enjoy your youth while you can! It's very easy once you get older and look back. You'll understand some day.
 
My only advice would be to remember that once you go "beyond" friendship, it will never go back to the way it was if it doesnt work out. You could still be friends afterwards, but it will not be the same.

Beyond that, just follow what you feel.
 
Herrmmann22 is right hun. enjoy your youth. someone will always have something negative to say about til the day you die and beyound, so chin up and forget it. you do what makes you happy, you are the only one that has the power to do that, no one else. **** what anyone else has to say.. really if I could tell you the rep I had in high school... and it was sooooo far from the truth but i took the attitude that who cares- ppl will think what they what to think no matter what you do and in the end does it really matter?? no but steak is right when you cross the line from friendship there is no getting back what was b4. good luck hun :)
 
Here in urban america, they have taken to calling jewelry of various sorts bling bling.

At least thats what I Think it is...I am getting old though, so I may be out of the loop. :eek:
 
Steaksauce said:
Here in urban america, they have taken to calling jewelry of various sorts bling bling.

At least thats what I Think it is...I am getting old though, so I may be out of the loop. :eek:
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that is bling bling
 
Hey sebani i'm 16 as well and i'm telln you us guys wish we knew what the hell was on a female's mind. Don't tease him and then reject him, that'll be the ultimate "i feel like **** now" moment of his life. One of you has to tell the other person how you feel or you'll just both lose interest in each and move on. Simple but complicated teenage life :cool:
 
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