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I'm not sure why she is upset. I just went back and found that she joined on the 1st, has made 4 posts and has gotten a response from every single one including a wonderful, supportive and welcoming message from Newbride! Hmmm, not sure what she wanted.
 
She posted on Group 2's thread about joining us. I told her to PM NewBride, but I never heard anything else from her after that. :confused: I wish she would stay but I am confused as to what she means by not getting any responses.
 
Mee, sorry to see you go. I just read your posts and see that you have a 9 mo old baby daughter. Congratulations.

I am new,too, and newbride02 was kind enough to be the first one to reply to me. I was happy to get her reponse but didnt hold it against other people for not posting to me. You can see how big this whole forum is and there are a lot of posts to read and people to get to know. The people that have been here a long time have their hands full with all us new members. Sometimes you need to be the one posting to other people to get to know them.

I see you posted in the new moms forum. I dont go into the new moms forum because, well, my kids are teenagers and since that thread really doesnt interest me, its going to be one of the last ones i go too. As, you know, all new moms are busy. Maybe you should give it another try. I think it's great there is a thread for new moms to support each other. Maybe give it some time. We all have bad days. We start, stop and start again.

We are all in this weight thing together and have the same goal --- to be fit and to be at a healthy, attractive weight. I hope you find what will help you - whether its here or somewhere else.

Bailey
 
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Hey again. I've been fighting some pretty bad post-holiday exhaustion and depression. I am new to the whole message-board scene, not really sure how it works and got frustrated. I emailed newbride about joining group 2 and didn't hear back right away, but mostly I've just been feeling really rough lately. My weight loss has stalled, and I'm not prepared to face another failure in my life right now. I'm just not sure I can do this. So sorry for the bad attitude. :)
 
I'm sorry you feel that way hun. You can do this, don't tell yourself you can't. It sounds like you are going in w/ the attitude, "i'm going to fail, so i'm not going to try" Your not helping yourself thinking that way. I know your stressed, I know your diet is slipping, so is mine. But we have to keep moving,we have to believe in ourselves that we can do it, you DESERVE to be happy.

I do remember getting a PM about joining a club. I couldnt' remember who it was from. BUT I remember being asked about the club. I wrote back w/ how it works and said if you were intersted to let me know. There must have been some mis communication. For that I am sorry, I'd never just let soemthing like that drop, not on purpose. I want to help you.

Stick around hun and we will help you as much as we can, but please believe in yourself.
 
Welcome back Mee! I'm glad to see you didn't give up. Had the feeling maybe it was just a bad day for you. We all have them and we all get to where it all seems like just too much. I have spent most of my adult life giving up on my health goals because there was just too much going on. I have finally realized that if I'm physically healthier, I will be able to handle life better. Even the emotional things are easier if I feel better physically. Trust me, life for me has been more downs than ups and my downs have been about as far down as you can possibly get. There are some people here that will help you pick yourself up. They've helped me! Just let us know how we can help and we will do our best. Sometimes it's just good to have a place to go where you can vent.
 
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Thank you for your support! Sometimes a kind word does more good than anything else. :)
 
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