i don't eat slowly...never have, probably never will. i've tried numerous times to eat slowly and put down my fork and have a conversation with people, but that leads to my food becoming cold, and that makes me angry. i can't win, i either talk too much or eat too fast...if only i could find a happy medium. so i just eat whatever i put on my small plate to begin with and that's it, no seconds. if i feel like i need something else to eat because everyone else is eating, i either leave the kitchen or have some more salad cause i figure that cannot cause too much damage.