Correcting Someone

This thread is for stories about you correcting someone, someone correcting you, or witnessing the like. What was the reaction?

I ask this because I finally corrected someone at my college gym. It wasn't a bad reaction, maybe because it was an older guy. It went like this: I was walking over to the free weights on Monday (leg/shoulder day) to do my db lateral raises and noticed a guy doing some db deadlifts. First thing I notice is his right foot is pointed inward and his knees buckling. He finishes his set, and goes to do some other stuff. He comes back for the next set, and I just notice he isnt too knowledgeable about the benefits of proper form. Now he is going all the way to the ground and completely rounding his back out.
I decided I needed to help out this individual. So I say "Excuse me, but I notice when you are doing these, your form is a little bit off. Mainly you shouldnt be bending or rounding your back at any point." He doesnt get upset, but says that he wants to work his back, and hes read that DL's are a great all body exercise. I agree with him, and proceed to try and quickly sum up the difference between agonists, synergists, and stabilizers (not with those terms though). I also recommend to him to place the db's onto an open bench to prevent bending so much and to perhaps use less weight until form is good (75lb db's). He says that he just started this exercise and he was doing 170 on the safety squat machine. The only real thing he seemed to be concerned with was the amount of weight he was using, maybe he was too proud.
Anyways I showed him how to do Romanian DL, which wasnt easy because he was still trying to a regular DL. Well I hope he got out of it that weight isnt important, and form is all important.

Sorry so long, but anyone else got something like this?
 
I am laughing right now because being the hippy girl I am I was trying to work my outer thighs on a machine, I had this lady come over and correct me, telling to do it the other way for the inner thighs not realizing I was working something else I just ignored her and went on with my workout. She didn't look at me the rest of the time. I guess this happens more than not.
Geneva
 
I have seen some really crazy stuff at the gym.

Right now, I need to lose weight, so I don't have the confidence to say anything. I have the knowledge in my head, but it doesn't show on my body right now, so I feel like they wouldn't listen anyways.

Besides, I have come to learn that a lot of people are going to do whatever they want, and don't like to be corrected unless they are asking for your advice to begin with. After all, their buddy does it this way, and he's ripped man, so it must be right. :rolleyes:
 
I got corrected, twice lol but it was on exercises I knew my form was shaky on. It was the assistant manager of the wellness center I go to. I'd had problems with the skullcrushers and lunges - and I'd asked her to watch my form on the former, and she asked me to let me know when I was doing the latter. Had both exercises modified so that I could do them properly, and she was very nice/professional about it.
 
That was smart of you to ask a professional when you weren't sure about your form. So many people assume they are doing things right because of some magazine article or crap their buddy told them.
 
deschain said:
That was smart of you to ask a professional when you weren't sure about your form. So many people assume they are doing things right because of some magazine article or crap their buddy told them.

Well I do like the people that run the gym - I trust them implicitly, and I think they put up with me because they know I'll do what they tell me to do. So it kinda works out.
 
I had decided to go to my college gym instead of working out at home even though its a like a basement and hotter than hell. Its usually has just a few of the usual kids there...So I walk in and i heard some heavy breathing and thats when i looked across the room and saw mike had the bar (200lbs) with his arms stuck just a hair above his throat. I run to him and hes all out of energy and air and then he justs passes out. He's passed out and so now im trying to rack the bar but its kind of ****ing heavy and im supporting all of the weight but the bar is still resting on his throat. I'm saying "fck' "fck" and thinking this guy is going to die right in front of me. Everything was happening really fast and then i felt the most powerful surge of power stronger than any coke high and i did the impossible, i racked it, OH YEAH! Point of story benching alone is fine because if you're cool someone will save you, and then they owe you their life. ps im also very strong if you couldnt tell...
 
I've got a 'being corrected' story!

I grew up near a military base, so our local gym was full of people who took working out very seriously. Back when I was about 16, I started working out there (5'11 and probably around 150lbs - skinny!).

So one day I'm using the EZ curl bar and some guy stops and helps me finish my set. He then helped adjust my hand position and gave me a few tips. I thanked him (I did apprciate the advice) and as he was leaving he said "No problem. That's how you get the pipes ...instead of the pipe cleaners!". lol
 
Another being corrected story - asst gym manager again - was not bringing arms down far enough in the one arm bench press... so guess what I'm working on lol....
 
I do an exercise of decline push ups resting the tops of my feet on a bench and doing push ups off the floor. I started doing it when regular push ups got boring :rolleyes: anyway, its pretty challenging and I always feel rather virtuous after doing it ;)
So there is a former body builder lady in our gym who has to be like 65 years old. lol. shes ancient, but in excellent shape. She has her "following" of young pups who want to know all her "secrets" and junk but she's also kinda "know-it-all-ish" and doesn't have a problem walking up to people, invited or not and letting them know they're doing it all wrong. So one very early morning she was at the gym, as I was, and in the free weight area where I do my little decline exercise. I went about my thing and afterwards she seemed to be follwing me to whatever areas of the gym I moved. I finally made eye contact as she came right over to me and said "You aren't going to get anywhere with those girly push ups". I got a bit defensive and thinking she saw me wrong I said "well my knees were not on the ground as a "girly" push up is performed, I was basically doing a standard pushup with my feet elevated for extra resistance" she's like "tsk tsk tsk, nope, thats girly" I couldn't believe her! I then said (nicely, although it took a lot for it), "Well it seems to me that if I'm doing a "boy" push up at a decline, with my head up, I then have my body weight almost doubled and it proves extra challenging" she thought about that a moment and said "ok I can see what you're saying, I doubt it but, I'll have to try that" we then got into a discussion about weight lifting and nutrition. lol. SO a few days later she comes up to me to apologize and states that she did try my exercise and thinks its a great alternative. :rolleyes:
 
I was corrected recently while doing skull crushers. The guy told me they're better if you do them off the bench, behind your head. In my mind I was saying "**** that. That's a pull-over."

But I ended up mumbling something about overextending my tricep in the past, which came out like, "Yeah...don't wanna tear this **** up again *graps at tricep*"
 
I never correct and have been corrected once.

I was doing lunges with some heavy weight, my balance has never been the best and the guy said my knee was going out too far and I should lower the weight. Then he went back to doing his wrist curls.:rolleyes:

However, there is a woman I'd like to talk to, but I don't want to correct, rather ask where she learned what she does.
 
I almost got killed by a Juice Monkey for correcting him. It was ..."fun"

so i go into the gym one day. now, i'll be the first to admit that this guy is way bigger than me. but he's also much more stupid...and i lift more than him on every exercise, lol (that makes me happy)

anyways, so i go in there and i'm doing shoulders which are my best days cause i lift the most with shoulders. now, i'm doing my set and he comes over and asks if i need a spotter. he was pretty big and i decided that i could take advantage and get in a good heavy set of shoulder press. so i grab the 95lb dbs. this guy gives me the most retarded look i've ever seen and proceeds to tell me that it's too much weight for me b/c he can't even do that much.

now, of course i had to prove him wrong. so i throw them up. and i pump out 10 reps, 1 sec up, 2 down. i'm proud of myself for that and yes i'm kinda bragging. anyways, he starts trying to do the weight and I of course tell him not to (I mean comeon, he just said he couldn't do that) he's got crappy form and he gets out 5. i told him to lower the weight b4 continuing b/c he was gonna hurt himself...he didn't. he proceeded to tell me how much i didn't know about lifting....bastard...and then to attempt to humiliate me infront of his meathead buddies....it's all good though, the retard through out his back, or pulled something i think while trying to force out the next 5 reps, back arched like crazy, holding his breath, and even lifting his feet at times.

it seems that i attract crazy juicemonkeys and they all want to kill me...there was the one that just picked a fight w/ me out of nowhere, the one i stole the towel from, and now this guy...oiy
 
I don't have any experience in correcting people, being the amateur...

But, I can say being corrected not only DOES NOT offend me, but I take complement from it in a way. I got help with something last week, and I thought to myself, this guy saw me busting my ass, knew I was really doing my BEST, and offered to help me out...I liked that...
 
Never been corrected, or corrected someone who didn't ask me to.

The last thing I wanna do is go over to someone and look like an ass, because the new study I didn't read says cheat curls make your quads hüge. lol
 
Never been corrected or corrected anyone.
 
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