Sport Confused, Please Help

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Hi all. I'm a total newbie here, both to the site and to the world of fitness. (used to work out in college and was a very skinny 9.5 stones but life intervened)While my results in the 6 weeks I've been going back to the gym have been impressive, I really need some advice on what I need to do nutrition wise to take it to the next level. Or even to know what that level should be.

2 Months ago, my life and my body were both a total mess. I was 13 stones (I'm 5'5 so that was way overweight), drinking nearly every night, tired, miserable, deeply depressed and had given up all hope. I decided to do something about it and have since lost a stone, (for anyone not familiar with it, a stone is 14 pounds.) go to the gym a minimum of 3 times a week and usually 4. I generally only drink one day a week now. Occasionally I may still have a bit of fast food, but generally my diet is good. I still have a belly of sorts but it is more just puppy fat now and you can't see it through my clothes. I am happier and healthier than I've been in years but my problem is now where to go from here?

A friend of mine who trains for MMA advised me to try the 6 small meals a day regime, with no carbs after a certain time etc and I am going to try that initially to see if it is workable for me. The problem however is I'm really not sure what my goal is now that I've already achieved a short term goal of weight loss. Am I just happy losing more weight and getting more aerobically fit? Or do I try to go down the road of getting really ripped. One goal I do have in my head in the medium term is to be able to do a leg of the my local marathon next year, so I am incorporating a little bit of light running into my regime first with a view to potentially get involved with a running club and developing my running ability that way. I'm really not sure however if I'm cut out for road running though so I want to be careful so as I don't feck up my knees. (I'm 29 by the way)

I also want to be clear however that I am an average guy, I'm not looking to become an elite athlete or anything but I do want to feel healthier and also happier about how I look. I want to really push myself to achieve my goal(when I find out what that really is)but also want to be realistic. Improving my mental health was a major reason for doing this so I don't want a situation where I'm becoming so obsessed about whether I'm doing the right things that I inadvertently end up making myself miserable. I

So I guess what I'm looking to see should I focus more on?

1. Aerobic fitness with a view to taking up running (I have woeful balance in my legs so cycling is pretty much out)

2. Losing the puppy fat and achieving a flat stomach though not necessarily a 6 pack

3. Getting ripped

For each of those scenarios what do I need to be looking at from a nutrition point of view. I'm tending towards either 1 or 2 because I'm not sure I'd have the discipline required to get totally ripped, but I at least want to have an idea what it would take nutrition wise (based on the assumption that I continue doing a mix of weights and cardio 4 days a week)to achieve these and what road you would recommend I go down based on what I have told you about my regime and where I've come from. I'm after getting so enthusiastic now about working out that I don't want to neglect it, but I really need some guidance so I don't get caught in a rut. Thanks.
 
If it ain't broke, why fix it? You've lost 14lb in 6 weeks, obviously if fat loss is the goal then you're doing it right, so I wouldn't mess with your current eating patterns without a good reason to do so. Your friend said so isn't a good enough reason, IMO.

As far as changing goals, it's really up to you. Why the interest in doing a marathon? Does the idea excite you? Some people genuinely do enjoy marathons, but lot of people seem to push for that goal early on because of the perceived relationship between cardio and fat loss, or because of the perception that running long distances is the definition of fitness, or because other goals seem too far out of reach. If it's something you're genuinely interested in and look forward to experiencing, by all means go for it. If not, I'd look into other goals.

Right now, I'd work with goal 2 until something more specific takes your fancy.

For nutrition, I recommend reading this:

http://training.fitness.com/nutrition/rules-vs-tools-53812.html

And scrolling down to the Diet section of the first post in this thread:

http://training.fitness.com/weight-loss/simple-badass-fat-loss-program-52270.html
 
Thanks a million for that advice I really appreciate. Just to re-iterate, my aim was to run a leg of the marathon where by a team of 5 do a lap each. This may or may not be something I pursue right now I really don't know. Thanks again for the advice. For a guy who came from as low a base as I did, all this differing information can be really confusing so anything that puts me on the right path I appreciate.
 
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