sa2010
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So yes i am very confused on this whole diet thing, and being a lifetime member of the fat club (with a few months leave of absence) you'd think that i should be an expert...but well here i am
so here is my issue....What the hell am i supposed to do.... i get so many different answers eat more, eat less, don't eat, don't fast, drink water, take pills bla bla bla....
so here's my story in a quick little nutshell...well more like turtleshell but who's measuring?
Was always tall for my age and NEVER thought that i was stick thin and ALWAYS thought that i was HUGE (even as little as 6 i remember these feelings)...now i look back at pictures of myself and realize that i was really skinny as a kid, but alas my self-loathing became a self fufilling prophecy...so when i was about 13-15 i really did start packing on those lbs since high school untill recently i have ALWAYS been a size 12 and around 180lbs....
REALLY packed on the lbs when i worked in a high pressure/lots of going out and drinking beer job(up to 215lbs) then quickly (in about a month) lost it and got back to my normal 180 and then a year later got serious about dieting (a little too serious) and lost around 30-40lbs in a matter of months by only eating 1/2 chx breast and lettuce a day and working out for 45 min everyday with out fail. of course i gained most (not all) of that back.
after my inital 35lb weightlos/25lb re-gain i dieted like i did the first time (chx and dry lettuce once a day w/water and lots of black coffee) and it took me forever to loose even 5lbs and i barely lost an inch...plus i was exercising like mad
i started eating meals again before i moved from london to cape town and gained about 10lbs ...meals=salads, chx, tomatoe/moz sandwitch and vry rarely pasta and i also stopped working out and starting drinking beer again. Then i went to africa for five months and ate 3 square meals a day and drank wine everynihgt (no more beer EVER) and only in the last few weeks there did i eat unhealthy (ie chips, burgers, pasta) and i gained only in those weeks 5lbs.....but the other times while i was EATING i didn't gain or loose but stayed the same...kinda like what was happening when i was starving myself...except for the fact that i wasn't miserable
so i def know how to maintain
i REALLY know how to gain (beer thank you very much)
but how do i loose???....does my body really need to be shocked into eating next to NOTHING since eating around 600 calories a day isn't helping....or is it TRUE that u have to eat to loose and should i try and eat three healthy meals a day and of course go to the gym...
i am thinking the later but i normally do eat healthly (skimlatte for breakfast, salad for lunch, big salad with protien and wasa crakers for dinner) i only eat poorly on rare occasions (xmass, thanksgiving, my birthday, easter, weddings) which comes out to once every 2 months or so....so why do i not loose.....did i blow my one shot at weightloss??? am i doomed forever HELP!!!!!!!!!!
so here is my issue....What the hell am i supposed to do.... i get so many different answers eat more, eat less, don't eat, don't fast, drink water, take pills bla bla bla....
so here's my story in a quick little nutshell...well more like turtleshell but who's measuring?
Was always tall for my age and NEVER thought that i was stick thin and ALWAYS thought that i was HUGE (even as little as 6 i remember these feelings)...now i look back at pictures of myself and realize that i was really skinny as a kid, but alas my self-loathing became a self fufilling prophecy...so when i was about 13-15 i really did start packing on those lbs since high school untill recently i have ALWAYS been a size 12 and around 180lbs....
REALLY packed on the lbs when i worked in a high pressure/lots of going out and drinking beer job(up to 215lbs) then quickly (in about a month) lost it and got back to my normal 180 and then a year later got serious about dieting (a little too serious) and lost around 30-40lbs in a matter of months by only eating 1/2 chx breast and lettuce a day and working out for 45 min everyday with out fail. of course i gained most (not all) of that back.
after my inital 35lb weightlos/25lb re-gain i dieted like i did the first time (chx and dry lettuce once a day w/water and lots of black coffee) and it took me forever to loose even 5lbs and i barely lost an inch...plus i was exercising like mad
i started eating meals again before i moved from london to cape town and gained about 10lbs ...meals=salads, chx, tomatoe/moz sandwitch and vry rarely pasta and i also stopped working out and starting drinking beer again. Then i went to africa for five months and ate 3 square meals a day and drank wine everynihgt (no more beer EVER) and only in the last few weeks there did i eat unhealthy (ie chips, burgers, pasta) and i gained only in those weeks 5lbs.....but the other times while i was EATING i didn't gain or loose but stayed the same...kinda like what was happening when i was starving myself...except for the fact that i wasn't miserable
so i def know how to maintain
i REALLY know how to gain (beer thank you very much)
but how do i loose???....does my body really need to be shocked into eating next to NOTHING since eating around 600 calories a day isn't helping....or is it TRUE that u have to eat to loose and should i try and eat three healthy meals a day and of course go to the gym...
i am thinking the later but i normally do eat healthly (skimlatte for breakfast, salad for lunch, big salad with protien and wasa crakers for dinner) i only eat poorly on rare occasions (xmass, thanksgiving, my birthday, easter, weddings) which comes out to once every 2 months or so....so why do i not loose.....did i blow my one shot at weightloss??? am i doomed forever HELP!!!!!!!!!!