Andy, I really am not at all aggressive & do not like conflict at all. I may have mis-read your intentions & if so I really do apologise. I am quite defensive of my forum friends(& family & other friends)& may be inclined to jump to their defense, when usually they don't need it & are quite capable of defending themselves. I must show some more restraint. We have had many unprovoked, very sarcastic, & occasionally nasty attacks in here, only ever from non-Cohenites & it makes us a little gun shy. Of course we are not in competition as we are all Cohenites! Cohen's has changed my life for the better as I'm sure it also has yours, cheers Cate.