well hi!
I have some feelings on that but not very informative advice or anything...
I do think that when you eat less calories than your body really needs depending on your activity level and metabolism level, your body WILL hold onto any fat you happen to put in it. yeah, i know that from experience.
When you eat a moderation of alot of healthy fats and calories and just be as active as you can, also doing the resistance training as well, you will be burning the fat and calories you put in your body the way it is designed to when your body is not out of balance due to too less of whatever it is you may be lacking.
I have never thought a good diet was to cut out a complete portion of the food pyramid....or to completely never eat anything sweet again...
i think you should keep everything in moderation, and your body will keep itself in balance....
as for a specific number of calories you should take in?? i am having the same question so that would be interesting to hear from someone else! Just thought I would voice my opinion ! Thanks for listening lol !