Are you from England? Help please

Ohappydaye

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Ok...here's the deal. I am SERIOUSLY considering moving to England but outside of the fact that I think the accent is sexy as hell, I don't know much. I have a little one (almost 8), as most of you know so I need a good public school system and good neighborhoods...and hopefully the cost of living won't kill me.

What area would you recommend? I've been doing some research and my field is in demand, just not sure where to inquire. Any help would be appreciated.

Thanks in advance! :)
 
First of all, do you have at least a bare minimum of 20 grand to spend getting over there, with your stuff, and getting a place and transportation? That would be for the first month, just to get started.
 
I don't think that would be too much of a problem. I appreciate the concern, but really I'm looking for recommendations for a really nice area.
 
In that case, you would most likely be much better off to visit forums that are more appropriate to travel, or that geographical area specifically. There are a few members here from the UK, but they are few and far between...
 
Hi Ohappydaye.

I live in England. I would have to say the area that you go for depends largely on what sort of life-style you would like... if you are a bit of a party animal, business minded etc a city or at least a busier area would be best but if you like the quiet life obviously the country side would be for you.

As for schooling... well if you are going for government funded schools as opposed to private schooling it's a bit of a gamble wherever you go. Obviously you get some mischeivous students in any school and the odd problem, but from what I've heard the inner-city schools can be particularly bad for trouble in class etc. Wherever you choose to settle you should be able to find a decent school not too far away, so I think your best bet would be to decide where you're going for and then start to investigate the nearby schools and suss them out. :)

Hope that helps a bit.
 
PS. This is quite a good website for finding out different things about England -it's geared up for tourists really but you can search for info about what there is in different areas & things like that.
 
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Thank you very much Sprite, I really wasn't wanting to go to travel forums right now, I just wanted the input of my friends here that I "know" and trust to give me some input. So, again I thank you for the website, I'll go check it out right now. :) *hugs*
 
No problem. And I just spotted your "cost of living" question; again it varies in different areas, the cities being more expensive than rural areas. London is the one place I can say is very expensive to live in, but then if you work in London you will earn more so this makes up for it a bit.

Compared to the US you might find things expensive; I have been to the states a few times and can't believe how cheaply you can get all your electricals etc! But the living prices are generally ok.
 
If only you couldn't swap places as I'm fed up of the UK, and would love to be able to move to live in America!
 
No problem. And I just spotted your "cost of living" question; again it varies in different areas, the cities being more expensive than rural areas. London is the one place I can say is very expensive to live in, but then if you work in London you will earn more so this makes up for it a bit.

Compared to the US you might find things expensive; I have been to the states a few times and can't believe how cheaply you can get all your electricals etc! But the living prices are generally ok.

Thanks again Sprite! I really appreciate your help!:)
 
Problem is that I've only ever lived here - you need advice from expats ... oh look - . That site look pretty good, and its full of American ex-pats who have made the change. The only experience of the States that I have is watching Baywatch, the Simpsons, and two weeks holiday (vacation) in Orlando last year - frightening place ;) So, America is full of yellow people with enormous breasts and you are expected to tip everyone inside or outside of a Mickey Mouse costume.

What I would say is although Americans and Brits have a common language (or at least parts of it), and we get on ok (as long as we both avoid talking politics), we do have certain cultural differences that would probably shock both parties. I would be interested in knowing what it really is like for either to change sides of the Atlantic. Economics - yes, we are probably a higher tax economy and petrol (gas) prices are unbelievably high (you get used to it, relax). However, there are few pluses - you don't need health insurance, thats one reason that it is a higher tax economy, because we have a national health service - its not faultless, but it works most of the time. We have reasonable welfare systems - the state pension is gradually being forced out, but for the time being, it still works. We don't allow firearms, and you rarely see the police carry them outside of airports.

Whatever I think about saying about living here, I realise that its tainted by my limited knowledge of what it might be like to live in the States, so its really difficult to tell you much unless you have any specific questions.

Its not a bed of roses here or probably anywhere else - I think that it is a pretty safe country, at least I feel safe. There are areas that might be considered unsafe, but they are located in small urban areas - on various urban housing estates on the edges of cities. It really isn't that bad. However, there are 60 millions of us on the island and 21st century globalism has its stresses. Most of that population is centered on London and the larger cities and towns. Rural areas of England, Scotland, Wales etc are still beautiful and relatively quiet.

Education. State schooling is provided from age 4 to 16 - or extended to 18 for further education - and then there is university etc, or on to the big wide world. Private education is a much smaller affair, and is very expensive. By the way, the term 'public school' is confusingly reserved for private schools such as Eton! It goes back in time to when they were the only schools. How good are UK schools? Well, I really don't know how they compare. Some state schools in urban areas are going to be under various stresses, and are not going to perform that well. Performance really does vary across the state schools tremendously. By the way, the schools all have to produce annual performance records - so in terms of test results etc - they can all be openly compared. When a state school fails badly - it is put under 'special measures', with a caretaker 'superhead' etc, until it improves.

I have to go to work now, so I'll have to end - just ask further if I can be of any help.
 
That was of tremendous help TF! Thank you EVER so much! I'm going to check out that website now. I really appreciate you taking so much time to share with me.
 
Its always natural for people to believe that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence Ohappydaye.

A lot of Brits these days move to Spain, Portugal, Cyprus, Australia, France, and Florida to find the better life. Some make it and build themselves a new life; but its pretty well known that others find that they take their problems with them, and fail to make the changes that are needed to successfully find contentment living in another culture. They often travel abroad on holidays, like what they see, but not realise that emigrating isn't a holiday - you have to pay taxes, earn money, pay bills, etc - all of the humdrum things that they were running from. They often miss their home comforts too.

I quite like it here, but its what I grew up with. I love all things history - archaeology, genealogy, etc, and I wouldn't want to live anywhere else. Ok, if I was rich I would like to travel more!
 
You're right TF...I appreciate your insight and the considerate way in which you presented it. I know I can't run from my problems...but it would be nice to put a few hundred thousand miles in middle. :D I still love the area, what I know of it...and maybe one day. I haven't ruled it out. It would be a great experience for my daughter, too. Again, thanks for everything, you're always so great about giving advice. I sincerely appreciate it. Thanks TF!
 
If you're looking to go to a different country - based on the amount of time i've spent living elsewhere -i would strongly suggest looking at australia over England... England is a lovely country and it's cool to be able to hop a train and go to a different country(Like France or Belgium) and there's that whole culture thing too but i thing emigration to Oz is a lot easier...

(and you've got the ladies of the cohen's forum who represent most of the states in australia to hit up for advice :D
 
If you're looking to go to a different country - based on the amount of time i've spent living elsewhere -i would strongly suggest looking at australia over England... England is a lovely country and it's cool to be able to hop a train and go to a different country(Like France or Belgium) and there's that whole culture thing too but i thing emigration to Oz is a lot easier...

(and you've got the ladies of the cohen's forum who represent most of the states in australia to hit up for advice :D

Ahhh,thanks Mal! You're always full of such great advice! You know that hop over to Paris, etc thing is a real attraction for England...but I do hear that Australia is beautiful. Hmmm....*OHD walks off thinking*
 
australia does have other climats -the worst part of it is the reverse seasons.. they are currently in the middle of summer :D

But and the are two things that everyone should see before they die...

I've never come across friendlier people anywhere - even to us septics :D the culture is pretty much like the US... it's got a national heathcare plan... and a pretty decent educational system.

and New Zealand isn't that far off :D You could go hang with Wishes :D

and there is nothing sexier than an aussie accent :D especially an aussie lifeguard :D
 
Australia's looking better and better!!! :p
 
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