Hello Steve,
As I said, I was trying to make complete steps that anyone could use.
We try not to preach around here to the masses. Individual attention works best, or so we've found.
What she actually choices to use is at her discretion.
Never suggested otherwise.
Even if she doesn't count her calories, so long as they are reasonable (little/no junk food and plenty of fruits and vegetables, etc.) she is unlikely to surpass her daily caloric requirements.
My point exactly.
Therefore, her weight loss could be mostly decided by exercise. Of course, all the calculations are there if she needs them and chooses to use them. Also, I calculated all her main information for her so she didn't have to. So, I am not ignoring the fact that she expressed a desire to not have to scrutinize her diet.
You missed my point.
I'm not sure how many people you've worked with. My client base has always been comprised primarily of mature women. I have been fortunate enough to work with a few minors though, and of them, I haven't met a one who was interested in all the nitty gritty calculations and worrying about calories.
I also think for most, it's not necessary to get them caught up in all that.
Get them moving more and getting them eating better with out the rigidity of calculations and all that jazz and they're usually much better off.
Mental maturity must be accounted for when making recommendations. It wasn't the fact that your information was incorrect. It was the lack of applicability in my opinion. I wasn't attacking you in any manner if that's what you were thinking.
I was simply expressing my disagreement and stated why.
I answered the question as complete as possible while still adhering to her desire to not have to consider her diet (or not really count things). She doesn't have to calculate her daily caloric need if she doesn't want to, but I gave her the information in case she found it useful.
Again, it's not all about throwing every little bit of information at someone. Applying advice delicately is an art that takes years for trainers to understand.
Information overload can cause much more harm than good.
In my experience, it's all about feeling out who you're giving advice too before rambling on with stuff that might end up causing more harm than good.
Not saying that's the case here....
Also, the fact that she is 17 doesn't mean she's mathematically deficient; I used to calculate this stuff for my middle school health class. Besides, I noted that you can easily find an online calculator for this, so you just enter your information and, poof, it calculates it for you. If she chooses not to use this information, that's fine, but there's no reason she shouldn't have access to information about proper caloric intake when you consider that lots of teenagers seem to think they can live on extremely low caloric intakes. I'd rather her have more correct information than to have no one give her advice because of her age.
Touche.
Though you are starting to be repetitive with your point.
This is a forum for giving advice, is it not?
The fact that you feel the need to ask this question in response to my post speaks volumes.
I don't believe this question warrants a reply.
If I understand correctly, the information I gave her is correct, but you are upset because it is too much information?
Please understand that I'm not upset. Where you're making this something personal or emotional is beyond me.
I was merely stating my opinion is all.
I don't generally think it is too much information, but in case it was I also did the calculations for her. I was subtly attempting to get her to realize that this information is important, so that she hopefully would consider delving into nutrition at least a bit more, which also seems to be what you did (although less subtly). So, I don't understand why you are unhappy with my response. Could you possibly explain in more detail? Perhaps I have overlooked something that has caused your criticism.
My only advice to you is chill out. Not everyone is going to agree with you or like the way you present your information. Such is life. We all have different experiences, knowledge, opinions and perspectives. Debate is healthy. But stop making it something it's not; namely something personal or emotional.
I'm not criticizing you. I'm not unhappy. I'm not upset. I simply didn't agree with your application of advice. Nothing more nothing less.
Also, your signature link was removed once. You added it back. It will be removed again. If you add it back, consider yourself banned.