42 female, 5'4 200lbs. 41% body fat. I just dropped about 80 lbs this past year doing home workout videos. Hit a plateau, joined a gym. 3x week 30 mins whole body workouts with a trainer -- PACE program, Kettle Bells, and a lot of core work. It's been a month, frustrated, progress is slow, in fact, gained a lil and measurements went up a lil. Struggling because i keep askin trainer to push the pace, he is reluctant for whatever reason. I know I can do more. But, I'm worried about doing exercise that "counteracts" the work I'm doing. I'd like suggestions. What can I do when I finish my 30 mins? would it hurt to jump on some machines on my own for another 20-30 mins? I just dont want to do things randomnly, I want some direction, but i'm not knowledgable. HELP! = )