Part ONE
Hello CoolKid.
My opinion based upon what you had written is this, youngman:
Never lower head nor believe your beneath anyone on this earth. None who criticize you are without fault of their own.
The Judgement of others and/or being overly judgemental of others can cause internal and external poison, and hamper true circumference of clear vision. Does one look at another and truely see? Maybe, if they were able to remove the spec from their own eye, but this isnt possible, because we all have specs in our eye; therefore, their vision of you are flawed as it comes from a flawed base to begin with.
Everyone STINKS, and sometimes persons need to take a GOOD WIFF of their own @ss, and just maybe this could make their vision just a tad clearer, once they get passed the self stink.
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I would like your to read this article. I know its long, but TAKE TIME TO READ IT:
On personal judgment, sense and discernment
Making decisions. We all make them all the time. Big
decisions and little decisions. We make big decisions such as
who we will marry, what profession or occupation we are going
to pursue, where we will work, where we will live, etc. And we
make small decisions: how we will respond to a problem that
has suddenly come up during our day, what we will fix for
dinner, what store we will go to to purchase an item that we
need or want, how we are going to respond to a question someone
has just asked us, whether we are going to study hard and do
our school lessons or not, etc.
Every day is filled with a myriad of decisions. And these decisions are often not simple. They are often complex, involving many facets and
considerations, pros and cons. Often some kind of risk or
danger is involved and one has to assess the degree and
likelihood of that danger in making the decision. Whether one
is investing money in the stock market, choosing a spouse,
accepting a job, lending money to someone, or buying a used
car, there can be all kinds of hidden dangers.
The right decision is not always easy to know. Decisions usually involve
calling on our store of knowledge and previous experience. But
as complicated as the considerations may be, we usually quickly
assess all the many factors, make our decision, and go. And
many of these decisions we make shape and make our life. They
can make us or break us. And underneath all these decisions we
make all the time is personal judgment.
Personal judgment, good sense, discernment is what makes the world go around. It is behind everything. It is behind all the important decisions
made in this world. It is the most important ability a person
can have. By it we all live or die. No other ability is so
important to a person as judgment and good sense.
We all must make our own decisions. No one can make them for
us. Not even those who love us most and are closest to us.
Once we are adults, of age, we can do anything we wish. We are
free to act as foolishly, as stupidly, as we wish. And we all
live with the decisions that we ourselves have made. The fool
lives with the consequences of his foolish decisions and the
wise man lives with the consequences of his wise decisions.
The quality of our life is directly related to the quality of
the decisions we make. Our life at any moment is pretty much
the end result of the accumulating aggregate of all the
decisions we have made over our lifetime.
Good decisions come from good judgment and good judgment is
closely connected with knowledge, understanding, a seeking and
inquiring mind, seriousness, and a habit of reflective thought.
Poor judgment is closely connected with ignorance, lack of
understanding, lack of reflective thought.
Closely connected with personal judgment is another important
element: personal values, outlooks and attitudes. The godly,
upright man of principle makes one kind of decisions. The
ungodly, unprincipled man makes very different kinds of
decisions.
Generally speaking the man of good judgment is that upright man
ruled by sense, reason and conscience. It is that man who does
those things tht he ought to do, those things that conscience
requires; that man who is attentive to that debt that we all
owe to ourselves, to do that which is right. Not all men are
ruled by sense, reason and conscience. The common mind is more
likely to be ruled by impulse, feeling and base appetite. It
is the godly, reflective mind that is ruled by something
higher.
We see a person engage in some foolish action or conduct. It
may be something he has done or something he has failed to do.
We ask ourselves why he did it. Why did he do that? His
action revealed an error in judgment. What causes errors in
judgment?
What causes bad judgment? Bad judgment is generally
caused by distortion of judgment by some distorting agent.
What do we mean? What might this distorting agent be? What
kind of agents are we talking about? It could be one or more
of the following: laziness, cowardice, vanity, ego, pride,
anger, hatred, romantic infatuation, lust, envy, jealousy,
greed, etc. And because these distorting agents tend to be
sins we can see that foolishness and sin are closely connected.
Many of these agents, such as laziness, cowardice, or vanity,
for example, tend to be deeply engrained habits that present
themselves as character traits. A lazy person or a coward or a
vain person, for example, often makes poor judgments because of
the distorting influence of their character weaknesses. Their
weaknesses rule, distort and overpower their judgment. In the
case of a lazy person a large portion of the decisions and
actions that he makes every day may be strongly influenced or
decided by his laziness. How he does things, what he does and
doesn't do, almost everything he does, may be determined by his
laziness. Thus we see how a character defect can affect a
person's judgment and his life.
Everyone does his own thinking; no one can do it for him.
Everyone manages his own life; everyone manages his own house.
I manage my house. My wife manages her house. If one has
children each child manages his own house. No one can manage
our houses for us. We have to do it ourselves. Some people
are conscientious, work hard, manage intelligently and
responsibly, do those things that they ought to do when they
ought to do them, listen to that voice within when it speaks,
and have clean, well-swept, orderly houses. Other people are
sloppy, indifferent and careless, do nothing that they ought to
do, manage their houses stupidly and foolishly, and have dirty,
unkempt, slovenly, disorderly houses.
(Article by someone else.)
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Remember this: The same people whom are criticizing you--they too can be criticized: (apply this thought toward the person and/or persons making comments about your body composition)
Sometimes judging yourself though someone else's eyes gives a different version than what you think of yourself in the first place.
My wife walks this earth with not being blessed and/or favored with the best genetics or body composition as compared to the so-called norm. She could easily fall victim to incorrect self-pity and in correct sorrow and depression (to make this list short). But she doesnt.
She doesnt hang her head to no one.
She isnt a jack of all trades, but SHE IS THE MASTER OF ONE: Herself.
Have I seen her cry? Yes of course. Have I seen her depressed? Yes of course. Have I seen the incorrect pity? NO.
Her outer branches sometimes whither, but the ROOT stays strong and brings water to the whithering branches.
YOU CAN DO THIS TOO.
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The decisions you have made have brought the current mastery of your condition. You have to reverse these decisions to make a difference in your self mastery. One part of wisdom, is learning to appropriately deal with and master yourself.
Being able to reverse decisions can begin to rebuild the root and thus provide growth to the outer branches.
You have to have the wisdom to know the difference between the things you can change and the things you cannot. And, the things you mentioned are reversable. And, you are in control of the outcome.
I posted this a few months back, but I think its appicable here:
What is heaven? (written by Chillen)
There is a heaven (your head and body):
One walks in their...Heaven...everyday.
Its you and the body.
And, every time you continue your diet and exercise, you take one pill out of the heaven toward your goal.
Yes, there is a heaven. Its you. And, you walk within it everyday.
Chillen
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An opposite Thought:
There is a HELL
One walks in this HELL......everyday.
Every time you make an excuse to not exercise (when scheduled) or inappropriately cheat on the diet, you take one pill from this HELL against your goal
Yes, there is a HELL, and you walk in this everyday you make an inappropriate choice when dealing with the natural human impulses of the body.
Answer: Be Heaven.
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Read some of these forum links:
http://training.fitness.com/wellness/chillout-log-chillen-21-25737.html
http://training.fitness.com/weight-loss/weight-loss-intricate-27164.html
http://training.fitness.com/weight-training/weight-training-101-a-17439.html
http://training.fitness.com/weight-training/technique-articles-24334.html
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Part Two next post
Best regards,
Chillen
